I am 21 years old from a muslim country. Havent 'had a girlfriend until a month ago.I am faithful to god but all my friends and people around have done zina.So have my girlfreind.I feel like a no one around them as i am inexperience.Was curious is oral sex equivilant to intercourse?Is the punishment equal? Is kissing or touching female breast and butt equivilant to oral sex? What are the minor zina and its punishment? PLEASE AM VERY CURIOUS!!!

asked 10111 husain%20bolt's gravatar image

Muslims are to lower their gaze when they see women... even touching one who is not your wife is bad. Oral sex is much far beyond just touching. Protect yourself, don't let yourself in to the sins of this area and make Thobah.

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answered 10318 def's gravatar image

It is said that we must lower our gaze at strange women,girls or generally lower you gaze at female.how do you get to know the girl and also you must marry a person who is not adultrous i.e not committing zina.PROPHET MUHAMMAD Salallahu alaihi wa sallam said there are six punishments for those committing zina.they will receive 3 in the world and 3 on Yawmal kiyaamat.1:beauty:their beauty that make them attractive will be destroyed.2:misfortune.3:short life span:there life span will be untimely terminated and they will be asked that why did they die untimely.ON YAWMAL KIYAAMAT.4:they will be raised as a dog or pig:if the doesnt have jannabah after it.5:it will be written on his head that ALLAH SUBHANA WAT'ALA is SERIOUSLY ANGRY AT HIM today AND he should not move near him and bad&worse measurement of deeds.6:he will burn faster in hell.but if he repent and ask for forgiveness ALLAH SUBHANA WAT'ALA MIGHT FORGIVE HIM.But ALLAH SUBHANA WAT'ALA IS Angry at those who have knowledge but doesnt implement it. Note:if it a virgin there will sign at BAYTIL MAMUR,AL HARSHU,SIDIRATUL MUNTA'HA that who has been an unfortune fellow in the world again.ALLAH WILL HELP YOU.

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answered 259312 abdulrasaqtoheeb11's gravatar image

always remember Allah

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answered 01 Ice_Muslim's gravatar image

Are you planning on doing what has the least punishment?? This is all wrong! As your not married to her. Please think through before you commit such a big sin... May Allah guide you!

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answered 655 Bubbles123's gravatar image

My friend.

Zina is not just intercourse. There is also hand Zina - touching haram And eye Zina - which is looking haram.

There is a hadeeth about the prophet stated by bukhari about Zina.

pray all your 5 prayers . Day to day. Friday to Friday. And u won't even consider all this trust me.

Touching n looking n kissing is just the start of it all.

You said you feel like a no one around them because you are inexperienced. ..! Why do you even care. Think of it the other way around... how does Allah see you between them all ; ) ?

She will make you fall into sins ? Then ditch her cuz she won't take that sin away from you when you face Allah on judgment day.

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