i became muslim a month ago,i changed to islam because i wasnt happy with my christian life and was impressed about how one of the muslim bothers submitted himself to allah.i then discovered that islam is the true religion.the problem is at the mosque,women are barely found,2,they all speak chinese which i dont understand so i rarely go to the mosque,infact i just went once when i went to officially become muslim and given a muslim name.this muslim brother is the only one who knows better English,the others it french etc,i have tried to find lessons on net but youtube,facebook,tweeter,etc are not allowed in china.and my jod being military,doing a course in a foreign country am not allowed to wear hijab.i have tried to find some online help but i have problems with logging in,internet problems etc.my work they have threatened to fire me,my parents cant accept the fact that am muslim,they think am joking,every one back in my country is making fun of me.am just VERY COMFUSED.I WISH I CAN NEVER GO BACK TO MY COUNTRY AGAIN.

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Assalam alaikoum.

It's very nice to find someone who really struggles to better his imaan and be a good muslim. Take it easy sister and relax. You can wear hijab when you're ready. And you don't need to learn chinese if you really meant chinese. Take it step by step.

-Learn how to pray, how to fast, and many basic things in islam at first. There are many sites that can surely help you. -Read Quran in English. -Download Quran written in English letters but in arabic verses. -Start learning arabic at least to just read Quran and hadiths.

By time, you'll find yourself able to do what you now think can't do at all.

answered 4411142 UnknownUser's gravatar image

Salaam sister... You can contact me anytime... I know a knowledgeable sister who teaches Quraan thru skype... I learn from her myself... She does it for the sake of Allah and its free or however much u want to give... Contact me and ill give you her details... Also, you can ask for any help you may need... Tc

answered 655 Bubbles123's gravatar image
edited Dec 27 '12 at 20:34

@ bubbles,its better u give me her contacts not me giving u mine,its awkward

(Dec 28 '12 at 03:10) khadijah khadijah's gravatar image

Sister check ur email notification of my previous msg... I put my email add in it then deleted it... It should b in ur email

(Dec 28 '12 at 06:32) Bubbles123 Bubbles123's gravatar image

Salam sister! Alhamdulilah, you're very amazing to do that! Congratulations you are now Muslim, Lah Ilaha IlAllah! There are many websites online that offer lessons for Islam and Arabic. May Allah give you happiness, love, strength and good health!

answered 615 Maz2728's gravatar image

Assalam-o-Alikum Sister Khadijah, First of all I welcome you to Islam .May Allah increase your knowledge of Islam.

Sister please visit this site, actually its online QURAN, where you have options to choose your favorite reciters, so that you can listen and read the Holy Quran with correct pronunciation. You can increase the font size. And Please choose the Script as HindoPak from dropdown menu as it is much easier to read the QURAN on HindoPak Script and My fav reciter is Mishari-Rashid and I think he is on default :)


This main page of this site also has a Hadith Explorer :)

answered 1.2k16 believer's gravatar image

thax my brother ,salam

answered 11919 khadijah's gravatar image

Asslamu Aalikum Sister...

Welcome to Islam (I promise On ALLAH that ISLAM is the true religion)...

For you there are many things to learn about Islam and even we Muslims still reading about Islam.

The world will never believe, support, trust the promise(truth). but ALLAH has given you brain to decide, using it you can choose the right path.

There are many proofs of Islam, READ THE THE HOLY QURAN translation to realise it. And also read Muhammad(S.W.W.A.) Hadees daily.

World's fastest Growing religion proof:


If anybody FUN at you just leave it to ALLAH (S.W.T.) since the JUDGEMENT DAY is fast approching & you can FUN at them at the time.

If you really love your parents ! do not let them to die as an unbeliever of ALLAH and his messenger MUHAMMAD (S.W.W.A.) try your best to realise them That There is no god but Allah, Muhammad is the messenger of Allah (la ilaha illallah muhammadur rasulullah).

Here are the useful sites for you:





All the best. SALAAM.

answered 152 Mohamd%20Azib's gravatar image

You should not bother yourself about going to mosque because ALLAH (swt) has made it easy for we women, he gave us the honour of praying at home without going to mosque. ALLAHU AKBAR!!! There are lots of islamic books that will give answers to your questions, that will guide you, that will teach you about islam and the way you'll live a peaceful life. And about wearing hijab. The arabic word "hijab" doesn't mean a big head cover, it means any cloth that will cover ur 'aurah' (whole body except hands, legs nd face) not just big head cover but anything else. Don't worry about your parents nd people over there, just stay calm and pray ALLAH (swt) will always be there to protect and guide you.

answered 151 Rukayya's gravatar image

thax rukayya

(Dec 25 '12 at 04:17) khadijah khadijah's gravatar image

Sister here is a link for reading Qur'an http://quran.muslim-web.com/?lang=en

answered 1.6k313 sadie's gravatar image

@sadie: you were searching for women Islamic website.... Here it is

but it is publically visible..

(Dec 24 '12 at 20:50) Irfan Alam ♦ Irfan%20Alam's gravatar image

thax irfan

(Dec 25 '12 at 01:22) khadijah khadijah's gravatar image

thanks all for the advice

answered 11919 khadijah's gravatar image

I would like to help you with anything you need I am a woman also and that may help you when asking womanly kind of questions. And if you ask something I may not know I will find out for you nchallah. I am alot like you came from a big Christian family and am the only muslimah. I understand what your going through completely. Like has been mentioned focus on 5 prayers a day and start reading Qur'an . That's a good start. And remember take it step by step don't overload yourself. Once you learn something apply it . Alhamdulillah sister you have embraced Islam ! This is wonderful.

(Dec 24 '12 at 20:22) sadie ♦ sadie's gravatar image

thax my sister so whats your email address?

(Dec 25 '12 at 01:23) khadijah khadijah's gravatar image

I don't know a way of giving it to you without everyone's seeing it. Maybe we can find another way?

(Dec 26 '12 at 17:11) sadie ♦ sadie's gravatar image

@sadie: just post it here and delete it. She will get notification in her email account. But those who has answered/commented on this question will also get the notification. IF YOU TRUST THEM THEN PROCEED, OTHERWISE NOT.

(Dec 26 '12 at 21:36) Irfan Alam ♦ Irfan%20Alam's gravatar image

Thank you Irfan . @ khadijah sorry sis can't post it here.

(Dec 26 '12 at 23:08) sadie ♦ sadie's gravatar image

its ok my dear,

(Dec 27 '12 at 07:30) khadijah khadijah's gravatar image
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Praise that you have got the opportunity to protect yourself from entering the hell. Most Non-Muslim die as Non-Muslim. And they will enter hell directly without having any question and answer. You are blessed that you have been given chance to choose right path...Islam... Which is the only path which leads to success both in this world and after this world.

Dont confuse, hesitate, fear. Just do what Islam said.

Submit yourself to Allah fully and then see his blessness. He will make everything easy for you.

Allah the Almighty is seeing/knowing everything and he will give the best than that you deserve.

answered 1.0k1935 Irfan%20Alam's gravatar image

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