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Assalam alaikum, I dnt know how to ask this but plz if i m not comortable staying with my husbands mom as she said somthing against me and when i asked her directly that id you say this about me she said yes and she called me her daughters nails dirt on my face .,allah knows we had no argument i never disrespected her but her grand daughter told me that she gossipd about me with her and that when i thought of askng her directly but instead f feeling bad about it she said she would say ten times that. M her daughters nail dirt....my husband was sitting and keeping quiet and i felt ver bad and insulted.i have two kids and i peay fve times alhamdulillah and i really dnt want to take any wrong step but when my husband says she is going to come and stay with us it scares me and i m juat nott able to trust her again .there are many incidents where i felt she s partial .even when my husbands shouts on me she stands quietly and doesnt stop him or even say a word.i have cried many times of my husband misbehaviour .i m scaredcoz i dnt kniw wht s in het heart.plz let me know what should i do.am i wrong if i tell mu husband i dnt want to stay with her as i feel very nervoys n uncomfortable.plz advice |
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considered her as your mom not your husbands mom if you consider husbands mom nor you then problems will come In my opinion you should not argue with her and nor with your husband if you do at the end of the day you will be suffered / your relation will be so it is better to wait and see and neglect all those comments or thoughts which she thinks and pass on you so leave build more strong relationship with your husband. Your husband was quite when his mom insulted you as male i think he do good or handled the situation but alone he should repent from you on what his mother did |
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Walekum Salam , You are not first one. i feel from your comments that your husband is in complete favor of his mom that not bad but i feel he should be justice. but it does not means that your husband shout on his mom or through her out or left her alone(as u stated) is not the right option . I didn't know the exact position but if the things as according as u stated then if his mom misbehave then you should not directly talk to her but ask your husband with a soft way and try to convince him also request him to talk with his mother softly and politely and you also didn't misbehave with her try your best to behave in best manner with her and defiantly pray five times and ask help from Allah and be patience .. Almighty Allah always with those who show patience . so either Allah put mercy in the heart of Your mother in law or fear of Allah to treat u good. Thanks Allah knows best |
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