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Thank you for everyone who commented. I have sorted my life out and moved to live alone with my daughter and have gone back to my studies.

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Keep the faith and allah will take you out of this problem ok.

answered 1311 Ibrahim%20bah's gravatar image

dear sister i just read this post wallahi all my life I've never heard of any human on earth with this situation. My advice keep obeying ur husband & parent nor matter what under on Allah says such a marriage is never accepted in islam i feel really empathetic about u may Allah assist u' may he protect u & ur daughter, may Allah accept this jihad frm may this patience be d cause of u entry paradise. pls sister i will want to know u to know once a while how is d progress of ur situation.

answered 355 salihu's gravatar image

Hi thank you so much I really appreciate your kind words. Alhamdulilah I have moved out and live with my daughter and also have gone back to studies and have gone threw divorce through a masjid and alhamdulilah I thank Allah for guiding me and listening to my prayers

(Jun 05 at 17:48) ummaysa ummaysa's gravatar image

The Prophet Muhammad (ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam) was asked, “O Messenger of Allāh, which of the people are the most sorely tested?” He said: “The Prophets, then those similar, then those similar. A man will be tested in accordance with his level of faith. If his faith is strong, he will be tested more severely, and if his faith is weak, he will be tested in accordance with his faith. Calamity will keep befalling a person until he walks on the earth with no sin on him” .

dear sister reading this brought tears to my eyes.....and really hats off for being sabir and a stronger person ..i do suggest you to ask ALLAH do istakhara ask for his help it yourself

He knows what is in every heart cause He is near our jugular vein .things will get better inshaALLAH and you will be rewarded by ALLAH the way you wont even think of .he closes one door and open hundreds of them. be practical and start living for YOUR SELF magic cannot harm if it is not a hukam of ALLAH .even a leaf from tree cannot fall without ALLAH'S hukam .recite QURAN it will protect you i went through bad timings myself ..but i think it was just a percent of what you are experiencing .i was not sabir like you took some time to understand what ALLAH was showing me .i cried and cried and then i even didnt realized when strength came inside and i became a survivor i fought ..still am fighting ... you are in my prayers sister life will be kind to you very soon ...

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Thank you so much I really appreciate what you've said

(Jun 05 at 17:50) ummaysa ummaysa's gravatar image

To the answerer Janice, [the answer was deleted], magic is forbidden in Islam. Allah says:

And they followed [instead] what the devils had recited during the reign of Solomon. It was not Solomon who disbelieved, but the devils disbelieved, teaching people magic and that which was revealed to the two angels at Babylon, Harut and Marut. But the two angels do not teach anyone unless they say, "We are a trial, so do not disbelieve [by practicing magic]." And [yet] they learn from them that by which they cause separation between a man and his wife. But they do not harm anyone through it except by permission of Allah. And the people learn what harms them and does not benefit them. But the Children of Israel certainly knew that whoever purchased the magic would not have in the Hereafter any share. And wretched is that for which they sold themselves, if they only knew. 002.102

answered 40118 UmarAbdullah's gravatar image

Warlikum Salam dear sister I am really sorry to hear I can feel the pain this is really sad I hope that everything is alright now bless you and the baby. I will do some Duas for u In Sha Allah.

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Alhamdulilah everything is better now. I have moved out with my daughter and have slog me back to studies and also went threw a divorce. Thank you for your words. I really appreciate it

(Jun 05 at 17:51) ummaysa ummaysa's gravatar image

@azeem jazakuallah khair. Im trying my best to pray all my salat and have Dhikr on my tongue as much as i can. I don't want people to feel sorry for me or take pity. All that has happened to me i became a stronger person. thank you for replying and may Allah bless you to and accept all your du'as insha'Allah

answered 815 ummaysa's gravatar image

Stay Blessed Sister:-)

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