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Thank you for everyone who commented. I have sorted my life out and moved to live alone with my daughter and have gone back to my studies.

asked 815 ummaysa's gravatar image
edited Jun 05 at 14:47

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DEAR SISTER, ASSALAM U ALAIKUM !! MAY ALLAH GIVES YOU HAPPINESS AND FORGIVES YOUR'S AND YOURS FAMILY EVERY SINS.

SISTER I APPRECIATE YOUR PATIENCE, MAY ALLAH HELP YOUR FATHER , MOTHER AND YOUR DAUGHTER AND U. SISTER I WANT TO GIVE AN IDEA OF ACTIVE RESPONSE, IN HANDLING SUCH PEOPLE AND GIVING A SUITABLE RESPONSE TO THEIR ACTIONS.

1ST POINT : BE INDEPENDENT , DO NOT DEPEND ON HUMANS, ONLY TRUST ON ALLAH.
2ND POINT: FORGIVE YOUR FATHER , AND ALL THOSE WHO HAVE INSULTED YOU AND THINK TO HARM YOU.
3RD POINT: BE HAPPY , CUZ HIGHER THE RESPONSIBILITY , HIGHER THE REWARD. THIS ALL EVENT REFECT TO A GREAT START JOURNEY TO THE ENDLESS LIFE, SO BE HAPPY.
4TH POINT: OFFER SALAH AND GIVE UR QUESTIONS TO ALLAH.
5TH POINT: TRY TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEALTH, I DONT WANT TO SEE YOU ILL OR TENSE OR FEELING ANY PRESSURE OF LIFE, GENERATED BY BAD HUMANS. YOU MUST PRAY FOR THEM.
6TH POINT: TRUST ON PEOPLE MAY CAUSE DAMAGE, THAT YOU CAN SEE.... SO LEARN FROM PAST, OR YOU CAN SAY LEARN FROM MISTAKES.

7TH: START WORKING SELF, SO YOU CAN FEED YOUR CHILD, DO NOT RELY ON OTHERS.

-ON COMPUTER, OPEN BROWSER -> GOOGLE.COM-> "ONLNE DATA ENTRY IN ...[UR COUNTRY NAME]".
-DO WRITE ARTICLES ON DIFFERENT TOPICS:
-GET PEOPLE HOW IN NEED OF WEBSITE DEVELOPMENT, ANDROID AND IPHONE APP'S, AND FORWARD IT TO THE SOFTWARE HOUSE. MAKE A DEAL WITH THE SOFTWARE HOUSE, WHAT CLIENT I WILL GIVE TO YOU, YOU'LL GIVE ME 10% OF IT.
-VIRTUAL CALL CENTERS. (IN MY PAST I WAS WORKNG FOR A CALL CENTER .. FOR UK PEOPLE ELEC AND GASS) FOR THAT SEARCH ONLINE CALL CENTERS OR HOME BASED CALL CENTERS.
-SALES AND PURCHASES.
- TEACHER AT SCHOOL

8TH POINT: SIS DONT AFRAID OF BLACK MAGIC, DO READ AYAT-AL-KURSI AND MAKE A HISAR, TRUST IN ALLAH THAT YOU AND YOUR CHILD WILL NOT BE HARMED BY THIS POOR THING.

9TH POINT: PLEASE DONT TRUST ANY PERSON DOING BLACK MAGIC, THAT I CAN DO THAT OR THAT. 10TH POINT: "ALLAH KI RAZA MAI RAZI REH K KHUSH HONA CHAHEYA" (URDU LANGUAGE) - BE HAPPY WITH LIFE. AND ONE MORE SAYING IN URDU: "ZINDAGI JIS TARAH LANDI HAI US TARAH LANGAE JAO" WORDS BY A PIOUS MEN I MET.

SISTER - I AM A SOFTWARE DEVELOPER , I WISH YOU DO PRAY FOR ME, TILL THE END OF UR LIFE. I REALLY NEED PRAYERS ALL OF U.

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answered 3014 Suhaib's gravatar image

Keep the faith and allah will take you out of this problem ok.

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answered 1311 Ibrahim%20bah's gravatar image

dear sister i just read this post wallahi all my life I've never heard of any human on earth with this situation. My advice keep obeying ur husband & parent nor matter what under on Allah says such a marriage is never accepted in islam i feel really empathetic about u may Allah assist u' may he protect u & ur daughter, may Allah accept this jihad frm may this patience be d cause of u entry paradise. pls sister i will want to know u to know once a while how is d progress of ur situation.

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answered 355 salihu's gravatar image

Hi thank you so much I really appreciate your kind words. Alhamdulilah I have moved out and live with my daughter and also have gone back to studies and have gone threw divorce through a masjid and alhamdulilah I thank Allah for guiding me and listening to my prayers

(Jun 05 at 17:48) ummaysa ummaysa's gravatar image

The Prophet Muhammad (ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam) was asked, “O Messenger of Allāh, which of the people are the most sorely tested?” He said: “The Prophets, then those similar, then those similar. A man will be tested in accordance with his level of faith. If his faith is strong, he will be tested more severely, and if his faith is weak, he will be tested in accordance with his faith. Calamity will keep befalling a person until he walks on the earth with no sin on him” .

dear sister reading this brought tears to my eyes.....and really hats off for being sabir and a stronger person ..i do suggest you to ask ALLAH do istakhara ask for his help ........do it yourself

He knows what is in every heart cause He is near our jugular vein .things will get better inshaALLAH and you will be rewarded by ALLAH the way you wont even think of .he closes one door and open hundreds of them. be practical and start living for YOUR SELF ..black magic cannot harm if it is not a hukam of ALLAH .even a leaf from tree cannot fall without ALLAH'S hukam .recite QURAN it will protect you i went through bad timings myself ..but i think it was just a percent of what you are experiencing .i was not sabir like you took some time to understand what ALLAH was showing me .i cried and cried and then i even didnt realized when strength came inside and i became a survivor i fought ..still am fighting ... you are in my prayers sister life will be kind to you very soon ...

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answered 302 devori's gravatar image

Thank you so much I really appreciate what you've said

(Jun 05 at 17:50) ummaysa ummaysa's gravatar image

To the answerer Janice, [the answer was deleted], magic is forbidden in Islam. Allah says:

And they followed [instead] what the devils had recited during the reign of Solomon. It was not Solomon who disbelieved, but the devils disbelieved, teaching people magic and that which was revealed to the two angels at Babylon, Harut and Marut. But the two angels do not teach anyone unless they say, "We are a trial, so do not disbelieve [by practicing magic]." And [yet] they learn from them that by which they cause separation between a man and his wife. But they do not harm anyone through it except by permission of Allah. And the people learn what harms them and does not benefit them. But the Children of Israel certainly knew that whoever purchased the magic would not have in the Hereafter any share. And wretched is that for which they sold themselves, if they only knew. 002.102

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answered 40117 UmarAbdullah's gravatar image

Warlikum Salam dear sister I am really sorry to hear I can feel the pain this is really sad I hope that everything is alright now bless you and the baby. I will do some Duas for u In Sha Allah.

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answered 156 Sahara's gravatar image

Alhamdulilah everything is better now. I have moved out with my daughter and have slog me back to studies and also went threw a divorce. Thank you for your words. I really appreciate it

(Jun 05 at 17:51) ummaysa ummaysa's gravatar image
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