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here is a situation..my late father had a wish of me getting married to a paricular relative..due to some issues i hppend to get married to the elder son when d relation ws fixed by him wth younger..i couldnt deny coz i was convinced that it was elder one n i agreed..bt now i know that it wasnt true..m living with my husband unwllngly..couse he never tries to understand my feelings he is arrogant short tempered never talks to me lovingly n never compatible..m trying to accept him the way he is JUST CAUSE FOR THE SAKE OF MY MOTHER AND MY LATE FATHER..ive also seen my dad in my dream looking at me sadly..im truely trying hard to make evrythng good.. another thingwas at the begginng after engagement my hubby had promsed me to send me to further studies n give me some time to adjust with him friendlily. i being immatured in thoughts had o misbelief that just by having sex once a girl gets pregnent.so i didnt let him touch me for a month but later everythng was convinced to me n i continued my relation with him n its two years of my marriage. finally im in a confusion that will i be sent to heaven coz i fulfilled my parents desire or to hell coz m not liking my husbands behaviour towards me. but i always try to be calm when he is hyper at anything. pleeeeaaasssseee solve my problem coz i want to be in haeven. |
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you are trying to make him happy but if he does not that is not your fault, and you will not go to hell cause he is not happy. well sister may Allah help you and solve your problem. your test of life will end soon. you have to decide that you will live him with sabar or want sepration, its your choice and your life.. and you wont goto hell for the things which are not belongs to you, going abroad for study is a big issue after marriage even i cancled my studies for the marriage too, don't sad for not complete your study, good relations are more important then anything. |
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apki shadi ko kitna arsa hua hai ? jo keh dia so keh dia us pr afsos na karen koshhish karen k ap k husband ap k love ko accept kr lain or dua karen, shaitan sab se zyada khush tab hota hai jab huaband and wife main fight hoti hai.. ap InshaAllah janat main jaen gi ap bohot caring hain, ap k husband apko maaf nahi kr rhy yahan unki ghalti hai apki nahi, ap bas dua karen or jahan tk ap se ho sakay apna ghar bachain. |
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thank u brother..but he aint the one n mt mom knows abt it but stl she gave my hand to him thinking of the insecured world..m tryng tomake it calm n simple btwn us he is very ignorant n stares alot angrily at me m tolerating it just to meke our future good..m still not blessed with kids..i personally feel that he aint having the intention of child before mating with me..:( m scared that il be put to hell by allah for my sins.. |
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thank u bt ive an example like yesterday i was hurt accidently got severely burnt while cooking n when he saw he just askd what happened n said nothing else he didnt even look at my wounds even in d morning..it makes me miserable. |
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sister, you have fulfill your parents wish that is a good thing cause it is compulsory for everyone to obey parents now you are facing a tough time , just pray to Allah and astaghfar every day and ask Allah to put mercy between you and your husband and make love each other, InshaAllah everything will be fine with the passage of time and you will be happy . life is a test not a bed of roses, try to pass your test and sabar for the situation InshaAllah you will get a good results. |
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please someone answer to my question may allah bless u with happiness. |
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