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I starting masturbating when i was like 12 and then did it till like i was 14 then I couldn't live with my self because i always had a feeling it was wrong so i told my parents. They told me to stop and taught me the right thing and i stopped for like six months. But then i started back up again and its been like 9 months and i know its wrong and i try to stop but its really hard and something always pushes me into doing it like my previous sins. I asked for forgiveness but i keep doing it again and idk how to stop. Could some one please tell me what to do. Like im really lost and i feel like Im going to hell no matter what so i do other bad things to. |
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Salam! If you have some shame feeling it means that there are some chances of recovery in you. Here is your solution
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Many youth have had this problem including myself. The best way in addition to remembering Allah, first and foremost, you should keep yourself busy with something that wont get you aroused, don't linger around the internet and watch pointless T.V., gain a good hobby or sport, even a job if you are old enough. Always remember to stay busy in good, and every night make dua that you wont fall in that sin the next day. As soon as the feeling comes over you and it is overwhelming, Play 5 minutes of quran, or recite some yourself, and then you will feel far too ashamed to even have thought of this sin. I hope this helps you and may Allah grant us all strength. |
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be away from bad friend first thing then dont be alone at home...never watch movies with bad scenes ..alll we say to god to forgive us . |
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when ever you think of doing it, fear allah subhanahu wata'aalaa and know that even if you are alone, he is closer to you than you are to yourself... you cannot hide it from almighty allah. Fear him and stop it and say audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajeem ... ( its shaitan playing with your mind) .. |
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