MY FRIEND LOVES THIS MAN AND HE WANTS HER AS SHE WANTS HIM, THERE HAS NEVER BEEN ANY CONTACT IN ANYWAY WITH EACH OTHER. THEY HAVE JUST BOTH HEARD ABOUT EACH OTHER. THE PROBLEM IS THAT AFTER THE GIRL TOLD HER MUM THE MUM REJECTED AND EXPECTED BETTER. SHE EXPECTED MORE THAN NORMAL AS TO THIS MAN HE IS JUST LIKE ANY MUSLIM THAT PRAYS AND DOES WHAT IS MEANT TO BE DONE. THE MANS FAMILY IS WAITING FOR THE GIRL TO FINISH HER EDUCATION BUT THE GIRL KNOWS THAT NOW OR THEN THEY WONT ACCEPT HIM. THE GIRL IS MADLY IN LOVE WITH HIM BUT SHE DOESNT WANT TO MAKE A MOVE SO SHE DOESNT LOSE HER FAMILY. PLEASE GIVE HER SOME ADVICE THANK YOU

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The thing is that the mother of the girl is looking for better future for her daughter and the daughter is only seeing the present.

Can you please explain what that guy actually do for living? does he have any job? whats his salary? what's his family background?. Responsibilities are above love, first the boy should be able to bear the responsibilities and love comes afterwards. Because if he can not then he will only make life difficult for his wife and for the family of his wife and then this girl will regret and all the so called LOVE will vanish in no time.

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edited Feb 22 '13 at 05:50

love is blind today happiness 2moro sorrow dear this is exactly what i've face too. my advice for her if this man is a true beleiver of Allah & he can offer d best he can to care for you just pray & watch d future coming if u're meant u'll end up 2geda nor matter how far both of u re bt if u're not that is ur destiny. Sister I in person will help her pray cos I understand what it meant to be in love. wassalam

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