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I am white lady my partner is pakistanie man we live with his mum and dad will i be accepted if my partner under shariha law he ses i must wear hijab but then likes me in short skirts his father gets also to llook at me is this ok under shariha law.

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closed Mar 26 '13 at 10:55 sadie ♦ 1.6k315 sadie's gravatar image

Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do.” [Q 24:30]

“And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons, their husbands’ sons, their brothers or their brothers’ sons, or their sisters’ sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O ye Believers! Turn ye all together towards Allah, that ye may attain Bliss.” [Q 24:31]

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Also sister. Avoiding eye contact and covering sexual organs appropriately are two of the ways through which, Allah subhana wa taala believes, both Muslim men and women can avoid commission of adultery or fornication among them. It was this knowledge of human behavior that had prompted Allah subhana wa taala to ask both Muslim men and women to lower their gaze, when they find themselves face to face with strangers. He prohibited women from ‘displaying her figure or appear in undress except before their husbands, near relatives who would be living in the same house, and with whom a certain amount of negligee is permissible.’[1] He has also asked them not to display their ornaments[2] before anyone, but the men mentioned in the above verse, in order to protect themselves from their lustful desire.

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yes thank you sadie you have confirmed to me more and i accept now. my man does like me dressed in short skirts and says that it is ok for his mum and dad to see me that way. so and i have now agreed so now with him and under shariha law i accept. We are trying for a baby and he ses woman should obay mans wishes. Being a white lady and new to islam i did not know, but he now has told me that man from shariha council will have word with me and that hijab will not be necessary when i see them at home

(Mar 25 '13 at 16:14) lindashoapa lindashoapa's gravatar image

Do you read Qur'an?

(Mar 25 '13 at 16:31) sadie ♦ sadie's gravatar image

I am trying to read quran thank you sadie. I am new to it i and my man are trying to live to the rules.He is nice pakistanie man my mother is im sure rasist when i told her i wanted his coloured baby she did not like it. so i keep telling her that i would like two or three of his kids. when she comes round i always have Germesh my partner put is arms around me so that she sees we are together, thanks sadie

(Mar 25 '13 at 16:58) lindashoapa lindashoapa's gravatar image

I can also say that i live in sheffield in the UK, i must also say that if my partner does not marry me or choses someone else i will be available to someone from abroad if possible, i can not be certain about him he could be just using me, i would then be available to prefered other coloured gentleman

(Mar 25 '13 at 17:30) lindashoapa lindashoapa's gravatar image

Its not good for you to wear such clothing in front of any of them. 1. This man is not your husband this is haram. I suggest you read Qur'an and sunnah and develope as a Muslim woman before you do anything else.

(Mar 26 '13 at 00:06) sadie ♦ sadie's gravatar image

I have told him, i think he is not going to marry me and he as left me upset and crying. his parents did accept me and i think they have decieved me too. sita the mother as had me help her in cleaning and washing her husband amerik they said that i have brought them together i have resently got to know that i am pregnant, i have not told germesh yet i do not know what to do now.

(Mar 26 '13 at 09:39) lindashoapa lindashoapa's gravatar image

Thank you Sadie we are now married have been a few months I come under sharia law it is good because I am white my hubby like me to dress up always in very short skirt at home but is father gets to see me is this ok

(Aug 07 '13 at 17:14) lindashoapa lindashoapa's gravatar image
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