Assalamo Allaicom sister and brothers. Please I need your kind thoughts. My love path doesn’t work well in my life. I am blessed enough with my career with a good job Alhamdulillah. I been through different relationship but none of them was succeed. Each one of course was wished to be the ONE. I pray for these since as part of life. I am wondering these failures due to “cursed”. Id been arrange by my relatives on my young age but I refused. Since then I get matured enough, I started having relationship then, it start failing for no big issues. Other says it’s not yet time. My thoughts might be my fault; somehow I feel I was cursed. Please I need some thoughts from you. I feel empty and drive my life crazy. I am affected and destructed. The worst now is im starting hating my family. I get mad at my parents, Im blaming them the situation. Im hurting my parents, sisters I feel self pity, im losing hope / faith, why im not that lucky for im desire ever since.

asked 916 jahara's gravatar image

alaykom salam my dear,i think the best thing to do is to live by ALLAHs will.be patient for allahs knows whats good for you,and stop getting upset with your family or your parents they cant do anything.only ALLAH knows your future.so stop forcing ends to meet but let ALLAHS will be done in your life inshaa allah.salam

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answered 11919 khadijah's gravatar image

Sukran khadijah. I was vulnerable at this time , again for the unsuccessful engagement. I feel that Allah punishment me . so sick my mind. In shaAllah through here Il pick up my self day by day, In sha Allah soon I get back my faith, my hope my trust, In Sha Allah very soon Allah cure my heart. Remove my anger, and forgive me for all ive done specially the time I left him. I wish I could start soon to live my life without anger with my parents. i feel so guilty every now and then but Shaytan is really powerful I cant control my self. Disturbing me. ..

(Mar 28 '13 at 10:23) jahara jahara's gravatar image

afwam my dear,but dont let shaytan to control you.remember some of us have got problems worse than yours but we have put our trust in ALLAH,and we are patient because every thing happens by his will.so in as much as you get upset with your parents,remember others dont have parents to get mad at.so always say audu billahi mina ashaytan alajeem everytime you want to get mad at your parents.inshaa allah all goes well with you.

(Mar 28 '13 at 10:32) khadijah khadijah's gravatar image

Khadijah start Allah name in capital letter next time : )

(Dec 06 '13 at 10:49) Miss Question Miss%20Question's gravatar image

i am male interesting to get marry soon no dowry required no demands well settle with own international business looking for bride any caste for early marriage if ur interesting plz send me ur pics with profile thanking u .,

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