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Assalamu alaikum,

This feeling of being lonely and all those memories is tearing me apart. I feel like i have got nothing to loose and just want to die. If it is not for Allah and my Family i would have been already dead. I loved her like she is the whole world to me and expected just a half of it from her.. I always wanted to marry her and become father of her children. We even had names for our unborn baby girl. We often go to the seashore and hold each others hands where she will say that her love for me is greater that these oceans altogether and i reply back that my love for her is greater that the skies.. These are some among the tons of memories i still have about her.. Its not going anywhere.

Whenever someone advice me to forget her it feels good for couple of days and again i am getting so depressed and lonely.

I always said to lot of my friends who take girls for granted and just dump them after having fun with them. .to not to do that and its wrong. I always advice them to have a good.. true.. honest relationship with them.. but they often laugh at me and mock me..

Now i am feeling like i wish i were one of those guyz who had just fun and no emotional feelings for the girl. I am severely depressed and just dont know what to do..

She dumped me 6 months ago saying that she is in love with her colleague..

At the early stages of our love i met her mum and asked for her and she agreed that she will get her married to me in 2 years..

Now she completely forgot everything and saying that whom her daughter is loving right now is much better than me and i am not fit for her daughter..

Now they are going to get married sooner.

I was completely shattered and still now cant believe that she did that to me.. All i am seeking is death or Allah to guide me and bless me with his mercy and give me better peace of mind. I still love her so much and i just cant forget her. Her memories, all those words,,.. she atleast say 100 "I love you" per day and now she might be saying it to him.. i just cant bear or imagine someother guy with her. We have spoken like what real husband and wife do and i always thought she will only be mine. I am from south India and always thought this is a place well known for its culture and moral values... but nowadays its not like that i believe.

please help me with getting through this i cant cope up anymore.. i dont know how long it will take and i am already 25.

asked 2015 muslimboy's gravatar image

Asalamu alaikum brother, coming from someone who has been thru depression, wiou have to be able to stop allowing yourself to consider suicide as an option, because it is not, ever. But I agree with the comments about getting married this is one of the problems that comes from dating getting married insha Allah will help u heal.

(Dec 04 '13 at 19:33) dacasad dacasad's gravatar image

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I have rejected a proposal once and now i see that good boy always with his fiance and its killing me. But with hardship comes ease. Inshallah!

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Ya Allah grant My sister a good pious husband(Ganbatte). Forgiver her shortcoming ya Ghafoorur Raheem. May Allah Bless you Sister. Jazakallahu khairan.

(Nov 23 '13 at 04:07) muslimboy muslimboy's gravatar image

Hello, the things you have done were haraam. you talked to her like husband and wife and already were emotionally attached to her(that witch). Allah told us to be like that only after marriage, now u see the danger. But dont wish death over this girl who didnt love u anyway. thats pathetic. dude..there are so many other girls waiting to get married and cant find a good brother like you. present yourself, marriage doesnt mean: i love you, omg, i love you and sex and all that..it means trust and that can be built only after marriage...look for another girl. Im 25 also and cant seem to find a boy. should i kill myself now? all boys and men have become crazy and lusty..should i kill myself? no....this world is crazy anyway...a man or woman doesnt love your self esteem issues.

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edited Aug 29 '13 at 06:28

I know i did a major sin, Shaitan tricked me. I admit that, I would have never did that if i had a good relationship with Allah SWT. I believe that He separated me to save me from further committing any sins. IT still Aches in my heart how someone whom i trusted so much could do that to me. Anyways i am no Dr. Who. (just saw the google doodle). No time travelling will happen in real life right.. :-) Stay blessed sister. Plz include you brother in your duas.

(Nov 23 '13 at 04:12) muslimboy muslimboy's gravatar image

My brother you need to GROW UP.take some responsibility amd move on. Get married...you will find someone else...there are more women in this world than men there will always be someone better.

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answered 23428 Faisal26's gravatar image

aww,

it is sad that she left you, but its best. She seems like a loose woman, whose taste in men changes a lot. Its better that she left you now, before you even got married and had kids. If you got married, it would only have been a matter of time before she would have left you for another man.

she will probably divorce her new lover, just watch, because she will find another new toy boy to play with.

She is not a good woman, and you should be happy, not sad, that she is gone. Keep praying, and be patient, and you will find that Allah will give you someone far, far better than her. Ameen.

wwb

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Sister/Brother,, Ashadu Alaayilaaha Illa Allah wa Ashadu Anna Muhammadan abduhu wa rusuluh.. We believe in Allah SWT for Everything sister/brother not in Spell Casting.We believe in Allah SWT word. Sorry to say but please work on your eemaan.. Believing in these things and going to them is shirk. This practice is forbidden in islam.. So please read the quran and sunnah.. leave this practice completely and make tawbah.. understand that even whishful things do happen to Hindus and christians but it doesnt mean that they are granted by the gods that they believe in,, no its by Allah. .

(Nov 24 '13 at 14:11) muslimboy muslimboy's gravatar image

So try to verify these things islamically and suggest other. I ll pray for you.. please leave it now. I dont want to see you in Hell fire. Please i ask you sincerely. I love you for the sake of Allah SWT.. Take care and come to the real ISLAM.

(Nov 24 '13 at 14:11) muslimboy muslimboy's gravatar image

My request to moderators that.. please dont allow these kind of suggestions. We all are answerable for this if someone reads it and goes the wrong way..May Allah SWT protect and forgives us.

(Nov 24 '13 at 14:12) muslimboy muslimboy's gravatar image

Salam my dear brother, A lots of girl are like your ex girlfriend in today time. Brother you only have lost your love or future wife not your creator. Brother have you ever taste Allah love ? No, yes or it doesn't matter if you just feel Allah love then you will never think about anything else and you feel so emotional about how much Allah love you,how much he loved you before. This world human love is nothing compare to Allah love, this life is all game and it short so remember Allah is still waiting for you to call on him and complain about the difficulty you are facing, we shouldn't be letting our self down for only girl/boy . Brother I belive if you merry somebody else then you will forgot all about the girl because I see a lots of people who Are facing the same problem and they can only remove those though by asking Allah for forgiveness and finding someone who would love him/her for ever . I belive if you merry and have kids everything will go away from your mind because you would be in love with the girl who you have physical relationship.

May Allah help every single Muslim with their difficulty and stay sitan away from all of them, and make they faith strong in Allah :)

Amen

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answered 60618 Bibi%20Amina's gravatar image

Curious. How are you coping now. Cause I am going through same thing.

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