brothers and sisters,i swore on the holy korn and allah,that i would cause misfortune to some relatives,after i had a argument, with them,and at the time I was very angry,I feel the anger killing me,and now just want to ignore people that wind me up by talking shit. will i get gunar for not doing something that i swore i would do on the koran and allah. please help!

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Ask a Mufti about this. It is not a question to ask layman.

(Mar 05 '12 at 08:54) Talib Talib's gravatar image

First of all you shouldent swear at the quran this is an innovation and if you must swear for somone to belive you it should be by allah secondly you shouldent swear to do somthing bad it should be used tou show you arent lying in extreme cases and lastly if you swear and do not fill your promise you must fast for 3 days and ask for forgiveness

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Assalamwalikum,

I agree with Nasreen A. Also just because you swearon the Quran tocause someone harm, doesnt mean you have to fulfill that promise because allah would not want to see his creations harmed. Although you were angry you should not have swornon the quran to cause someone harm but instead you should have prayed to find peace in yourself and the well being of your familymember after all they are family and you would not wish ill for them.

"The good deed and the evil deed cannot be equal. Repel (the evil) with one which is better (i.e. Allâh ordered the faithful believers to be patient at the time of anger, and to excuse those who treat them badly), then verily! he, between whom and you there was enmity, (will become) as though he was a close friend" (The Noble Qur'an - Fussilat 41:34).

You must forgive people who treat you badly and have patience when your angry instead of swearing upon the quran which is the holy book as it guides us on how to live our lives as human and it also guides to the right path, the path of salvation. Prayer is good to do when your angry as you are able to find your inner peace through prayer. Dont pray for foe's harm but pray for their well being and success in life.

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Swearing with Qur'an, the name of Prophate (saw). Or masjid al hiram in Macca or the prophate masjid in madina or haven & earth or jahanama or any other thing is highly forbided in Islam except swearing with Allah only. Example. When you tell somebody something & he did not believe you then you swear with Allah name by saying wallahi & if he did not believe you continue by adding tallahi & if he did not still believe you. Then you conclude by saying sumabillahilliazim & if he still did not believe you that means he is not a believer. And remember no one's used Allah name to swear where by he want to do bad thing or harm some body or he is not speaking the trute. May Allah protect us.

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