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asked 1012 motadayina's gravatar image

I cant say haram or halal.. but I don't think its permissible to do that. you are usually supposed to found your love or whatever by like in public, not online. online can be fake or scam. its just not right to do.

answered 462619 IAmAMuslim's gravatar image


If the matrimonial websites on the internet are controlled by Islamic guidelines, then there is nothing wrong with going to them and making use of them. These guidelines include the following: 

1 – They should not show pictures of the women, because looking at the woman to whom one is proposing is only allowed for the suitor once he has resolved to marry her, and it is not permissible for anyone else to look at her, and it is not permissible to enable anyone to do that.

2 – The website should not give detailed descriptions of the woman so that it is as if one can see her, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No woman should describe another woman to her husband so that it is as if he is looking at her.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5240).

3 – It should not allow any correspondence between the two sexes, because of the evils that result from that, including the participation of mischief-makers both male and female whose intention is to do evil or have fun. Rather the administrators of the site should first check on the identity of the suitor, then put him in touch with the guardian (wali) of the woman. 


You should seek the help of your family and friends, and those who are in charge of Islamic centres, in looking for a righteous wife and husband. in your homeland or in the place where you are staying. This is easy, praise be to Allaah, and it is safer and better than doing that via the internet. 


In order for the marriage to be valid, it is essential to have the consent of the woman’s guardian (wali), because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There is no marriage except with a wali.” Narrated by Abu Dawood (2085), al-Tirmidhi (1101) and Ibn Maajah (1881) from the hadeeth of Abu Moosa al-Ash’ari; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi. 

And he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There is no marriage except with a wali and two witnesses of good character.” Narrated by al-Bayhaqi from ‘Imraan and ‘Aa’ishah; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 7557. 

And he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Any woman who gets married without the permission of her guardian, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid. If he has consummated the marriage with her then she is entitled to the mahr because of the intimacy that he has had with her, and if there is a dispute, then the ruler is the guardian of the one who has no guardian.” Narrated by Ahmad (24417), Abu Dawood (2083) and al-Tirmidhi (1102); classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’ no. 2709. 

answered 73210 Light's gravatar image

What if the woman hasn't s wali "?? What then?

(Apr 20 '13 at 22:16) sadie ♦ sadie's gravatar image

I don't understand your question, but I assume your guardians are not Muslim. A kaafir cannot be the wali of a Muslim woman, so if none of your family are Muslims, then the leader or mufti of the Muslims, or the imam of the Islamic center, should stand in as her wali.

(Apr 20 '13 at 22:21) Light ♦ Light's gravatar image

Ok yes you assumed correctly I haven't any Muslim family.

(Apr 20 '13 at 22:24) sadie ♦ sadie's gravatar image

I really need you opinion / knowledge about my situation , I left you message yesterday.

(Apr 20 '13 at 22:27) sadie ♦ sadie's gravatar image

Ok mashalah I'm answering it now

(Apr 20 '13 at 22:58) Light ♦ Light's gravatar image

I don't know hot send message so I posted on the relationship inshallah

(Apr 20 '13 at 23:15) Light ♦ Light's gravatar image

I don't know how to send message, I posted it on the relationship forum. Inshallah just send me a message with your repley.forgivebme.

(Apr 20 '13 at 23:19) Light ♦ Light's gravatar image
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... to file a false 498a case, thus breaking her marriage and destroying the future of everyone concerned. ... 498a are those who were never interested in matrimony. For these women, 498a is the get-rich-quick ... They actively scout around in the matrimonial sites for their next bakra, preferably ...

marriage sites

answered 0543146 UnknownUser's gravatar image

With regards to this quote and your earlier post. I think it is clear the bad and 'potential' bad far outweigh the good. I mean we cant set up and accept such a method which is such a simple and efficient route for many bad actions and intentions. The initial website and concept might not be wrong, but it is an avenue to haram and fitnah.

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answered 10 naveen258's gravatar image

Always have a whois lookup at those sites from and check whether the disclosed contact details are true and whether they are trusted to your knowledge.If not it is likely to be a scam.You can also check the website reputation and safety at

answered 10 babyprinx's gravatar image

Site "Halal Sex shops" will be the first of its kind in the country where the vast majority of the inhabitants are Muslim. Those who click on the page, ensured that all products are in line with Islamic teachings.

The website is also intended to discussions under headlines such as "Oral according to Islam." The anonymous founders wrote that they hope the online store can help to dispel the prejudice that Islam is hostile to sex.

Although the website is the first of its kind in Turkey, there are so-called erotic shops in the country that is known for its non-religious constitution. Turkey's conservative Prime Minister Recep Tayyip Erdogan suggested last year that they should change their name to "love shops."

Is this haram also?

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