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Hi All, I am a Muslim Girl and from the childhood I have my own morals and values according to which I sustain my life with respect, previous 3 years I am in love with a guy, he still loves me but he is not in a condition by which he marry me, he is also in very frustration and tension about his career, I am also a Career Oriented Women and wanted to become something successful in life, Previous year he told me that you marry someone else whoever comes to your parents, I was get angry an came some other Metro City for the job, when I came here I met a guy he is also in my company, I do not love him as much as I love him, he has some problem with his wife means his wife is not so much attentive to sex, so he is frustrated by marriage, I really don't know when I get into all that, now I lost my morals my values, my virginity and all. He was not able to marry me since he is already having a kid of 2 years. I ruin out my life. Now i don't have sukun in anything. Kindly give some Idea plz.. Otherwise i will kill myself one day.

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reverted May 05 '13 at 01:23 Muhammad Abdul Ahad ♦ 1.8k2315 Muhammad%20Abdul%20Ahad's gravatar image

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(Apr 23 '13 at 23:33) Irfan Alam ♦ Irfan%20Alam's gravatar image

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You shouldn't marry someone who committed zina , as they cannot be trusted .

answered 1.8k2315 Muhammad%20Abdul%20Ahad's gravatar image

ok , I am trying my level best. From yesterday night i am start ignoring both of them, kindly remember me in Dua, hope I am able to do these changes in my life. Thanks for the suggestions and answering my questions. hope Allah will forgive me.

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May Allah forgive you and grant you jannat .

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I see nothing wrong in your answer.

Dawah or calling others to Islam is the best of deeds, because it involves guiding people to the Straight Path and to that which will bring them happiness in this world and in the Hereafter:  “And who is better in speech than he who [says: ‘My Lord is Allaah (believes in His Oneness),’ and then stands firm (acts upon His Order), and] invites (men) to Allaah’s (Islamic Monotheism), and does righteous deeds, and says: ‘I am one of the Muslims.’”[Fussilat 41:33 – interpretation of the meaning]  Calling others to Islam is an honourable mission. This is the work of the Prophets and Messengers. The Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) explained that his mission in life, and the mission of his followers, is to call people to Allaah.  The Muslims in general and the scholars in particular are commanded to call people to Islam, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):  “Let there arise out of you a group of people inviting to all that is good (Islam), enjoining Al-Ma‘roof (i.e. Islamic Monotheism and all that Islam orders one to do) and forbidding Al-Munkar (polytheism and disbelief and all that Islam has forbidden). And it is they who are the successful”[Aal ‘Imraan 3:104] 

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