Is it good for a muslim brother to have a girl friend (INTIMATE FRIENDs) and vis-a-vis.

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retagged Apr 21 '12 at 16:10 goldPseudo ♦ 295215 goldPseudo's gravatar image

no you can only speak to your mahrams unless you ask a womens parents hand in marrige then you may speak to them ONCE to know if you truly want to marry them if yes then you marry them if not your relashinship must end

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answered 199722 NesreenA's gravatar image

I would recommend going straight to her parents and ask to marry. It is dangerous to have intimate relationship. What if you don't merry her, you would destroy her life. No one wants a woman that was touched before. or if her husband would learn that he might divorce. if you love her leave her for her safety. This is what I would do: I would make dua and ask if it is good for my life and hereafter, help me to merry her. if it would destroy my life and hereafter make me away from her, so I won't see her in my life after. This is the best for you and for her. Don't ruin your both lives by listening to your desires. Prophet, peace be upon him, said 'Listen to your nafs and do the opposite.

May Allah guide us all.

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