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I did sex with girl when I was of 18 and she was not virgin I slept with her because she forced me to do so i know that she was not virgin she was in living relationship (NOT MARRIED) with a guy and that guy made her pregnant many times. I guess I slept with because that time I wanted to complete my sexual desier and she give me the open chance to do it and even though I was on wrong pathway I played with almost 10 girl that time I did almost everything with those girls accept (Sexual Intercourse). Last year I again did the mistake with one of my friend I slept with her but I did broke her hymen means she is still virgin... No I'm so guilty with the act that I did... I know that I can change the things to did but I want to improve it.

For the other girls I don't know where are they upto but the friend with whom I did this shamefull act I want to marry her.

I'm not so good in Islam please guide me... I have already disucced about marraige with the girl and even she wants to get married with me... We both wants to do taubah please guide me.

I just read few topic and I'm really scared with the punishment of Zina so please guide me is there is way to ask allah to forgive me? OR I will have to get the 100strokes?


asked 153 unidetified's gravatar image
edited May 17 '13 at 19:17

Wa 'alaikumus salam wa ra'hmatullahi wa barakatuhu wa maghfiratuhu. What have you done was indeed a grave sin. You and your girlfriend need to do sincere taubah. Zina (fornication, adultery) is a serious crime and a major sin which takes away the quality of faith from a person, and exposes him to punishment and humiliation unless he repents. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):“And come not near to unlawful sex. Verily, it is a Faahishah (i.e. anything that transgresses its limits: a great sin, and an evil way that leads one to hell unless Allaah Forgives him)”[al-Isra’ 17:32] If you both truly repent to Allaah, Allaah, if wills, will accept your repentance, and you do not need to confess your sin to anyone so that the hadd punishment would be carried out on you(100 lashes). If you repent sincerely towards Allaah, there is no reason why you and she should not get married, and indeed it may be obligatory in your case, as a protection for you and in accordance with what Allaah has permitted. After this, both of you should fear Allah and never again do this sin. Always try to obey every rule in sharia'h after this. Read Quran in a language you understand and realize the intensity of the punishment in the afterlife. Live according to the rules set by Allaah, and InshaaAllaah everything will go fine. And Allaah knows best. (@Light, the credit goes to you. I needed to find a quick answer and I couldn't write a good one so I copied yours. Please forgive me.)

answered 1.8k2314 Muhammad%20Abdul%20Ahad's gravatar image
edited May 17 '13 at 20:11
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