A,w i live in the west and my parents on the opposite. B/c i'm from big family i helped them financially for a couple of years. But now i'm going through difficulties here. i need un advice aboout this plz. jazzakumu Allah bikhair
Wa 'alaikumus salam wa ra'hmatullahi wa barakatuhu wa maghfiratuhu. Brother/Sister your question is unclear. But I will try to answer it-
This beautiful Hadith answers in just three words (in the original Arabic) not only what but also why. We are to honor them, serve them, and take care of them in such a way that pleases them. For we will find the pleasure of Allah in the pleasure of our parents. On the other hand, if a person is disrespectful, disobedient, or careless toward his parents, he has just opened his door to hell through this behavior. It is a sign of the importance of this issue that in the Qur'an, the command about our duties to the parents always occurs next to the command reminding us of our duties to Allah.
"Join not anything with Him. Be good to your parents." [Al-An'am 6:151].
Answer- Hang on there brother/sister! Allah will surely test us.
"Be sure We shall test you with something of fear, and hunger, some loss in goods, or lives, or the fruits (of your toil), but give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere.
Who say when afflicted with calamity: 'To Allah we belong and to Him is our return.'
They are those on whom (descend) blessings from Allah and Mercy, and they are the ones that receive guidance." [Al-Baqarah 2:155-157]
So don't lose hope in Allah. Work hard to pass this test of faith. Increase your nawfil 'ibadats, especially pray the tahajjud salat and make plenty of du'a. Ask Allah to help you. May Allah make your affairs easier.