Salam aleik to whom it may concern. I am 25 years old. I met a 19 year old girl .I have studied her and I wish to marry her. Both of us have informed our parents. I don't plan to go into a relationship since I know its haram. But she feels marriage now would disturb her education. I have tried to persuade her that it won't that if she agrees I could even pay her dowy now and make any physical relationship between us halal, that we could even delay childbirth. Please I want to know if what I said is in accordance with the sharia. Please, do also tell me in what way can I persuade her parents so that they can allow me marry her so as to prevent us from zina because we both like each other so much . Jarzakallahu Khairan .