The problem is my two brothers..
I am 3 or 4 years older than them, they give me no respect.
even if I tell them to not do that they call me with bad names e.t.c or sometime as joke.
when I tell them not to stay out for too long he/they does/do not listen.
if I tell him when you go to masjid for pray, just after prayer get home and do not talk too much or go around with your freinds anywhere, even I heard some bad-guys(27 years old) who were older than my brothers and my brothers-freinds used to talk to my brothers and his freinds.
even they used to go to play cricket.
I heard from many people tell your brothers and other kids to stop going around with big-guys they are not good.
but when I tell them do not go out for too long with your freinds they reply me by saying this " Don't you go out with your xyz freind " don't you go and meet them.
but I dont know how to explain them that I am their big-brother who knows what to do for them and me, who knows whats right and wrong.
I have here only 4 freinds one of them lives abroad for study other 2 just came back from other country few months ago, and will leave soon, so only one will be left here ... why ? I make only these friends because I know them, and know from people. Never heard anything bad from others, even after meeting them I realized they are people of good character, there are so many bad guys out there I hate to stay in their company and I do not want to become like them.
when I was young I did not used to go far away and play or hanging out with them alone,
what should I do now ? how to explain them