In love with a middle aged Muslim man that i after a few months realize he is not able financially nor physically able to take care of me . He has 2 wives that he keeps me a secret as becoming his 3rd wife but i he says they don't need to know till we are all together. It's told to them I am helping out. I am do a lump sum of money soon, Don't want to think that's all I am here for. What do I do??