ok everyone.... so feel free to criticize and give the right kind of advice thats why im asking you. ive been talking to a guy secretly without my parents permission....i know i shouldn't be... but i want to start a life with him... and he says he wants to marry me, which i do believe is true. the only thing that i really need help about is how to tell my mom and dad my mom i can pretty much handle but my dad...well hes one of those tough arab guys.... how do i tell him "dad ive gone behind your back and found a guy who really cares about me..." how do i tell him that i want him to give this guy a chance... keep in mind ive talked to boys before... but this is different this guy makes me pray. he wants me to be good he makes me crave to be the best i can be no. im not in love with him not yet but if i was then id be even more confused so please tell me what i should do.... thank you oh btw.....met this guy online....havent had any physical contact which makes this even harder to explain to them!