My situation is rather complicated, and I am desperate for a way out, but I want it to be the right way. My family is very strict, not religiously strict but in other things as well. However, my father, who is physically and verbally abusive with us all, has also been secretly sexually abusing me for a long time now.. I finally have a way out, but that seems to be an uncertain path.. One of the boys I study with has asked me to marry him, and while he is a good religious man,I've known him long enough to see that his temperment is a lot like my father's, and I can't bear the thought of being trapped in an abusive atmosphere for the rest of my life after marriage as well.. The other is also my colleague, but a white Christian boy. He's a decent and simple man, does not even drink, and he is ready to convert to Islam as well.. I don't know what to do, really have no other options now either except these for leaving this hell.. I've been struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts for a while now, I can't even tell anyone about this.. Please help me.. I really don't know what to do..

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Sister I don't even get vote when I answer someone question...lol

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Assalamu Alikum sister tell me why You marry a person who is same Like your father and you have said That your father abusing you sexually Please contact me to anwer you briefly At bakarbhai@live.com

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Sister she not even married but she love someone who is just like her dad so please advice her bc I give her too much advice but it still doesn't help

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