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Assalamwalaikum, One of my friend said he had slept with his mami both are agreed and were doing tht in absence of his mamu. AS his mamu stays abroad and not much interested in sex life.

I told him this is not right, but he says when both agreed then this is not crime like that. I told him to clarify with mufti, but this thing we cant ask openly, so asking you.

Please clarify whether my friend is right or wrong. ANd if wrong how to repent his mistake.

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What is ruling of girls those who performed zina before marriage.

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What is ruling of girls those who performed zina before marriage.

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Hi dear friend. As a muslim I know that marriage between mother and her son or father and daughter is not allowed and is strictly forbidden in Islam.But my offer for your friend's mother is to speak to her husband to go to doctor for solving his sexual impotence .But if he didn't accept to go doctor or didn't cure his problem,Islam gives her the right to divorse.It means in Islam a woman has the right to complain and request for divorse for this reason(sexual impotence).So she can marry again and meet her desires.Finally,sextual desires must be met lawfully and morally.

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yHe is saying about his friend's maternal aunty (mami in urdu) and not the mother.

(Jul 19 '13 at 23:09) Irfan Alam ♦ Irfan%20Alam's gravatar image

Your friend is wrong. It is strongly forbidden to do unlawful sexual activities.

A relationship between a man and a woman outside of marriage, which is what is called an unlawful relationship, is haraam, regardless of the level of this relationship and whether it goes as far as an intimate relationship or zina (sexual relationship), which is the most reprehensible and abhorrent type of sins and one of the gravest of major sins that poses the greatest danger to the individual’s religious commitment and faith, or it is less than that, such as looking, touching or kissing. All of that is haraam and these are types of zina in the general sense, and are things that lead to the greater immoral action.

Holy Qur'an says,

Say (O Muhammad SAW): "(But) the things that my Lord has indeed forbidden are Al-Fawahish (great evil sins, every kind of unlawful sexual intercourse, etc.) whether committed openly or secretly, sins (of all kinds), unrighteous oppression, joining partners (in worship) with Allah for which He has given no authority, and saying things about Allah of which you have no knowledge." [Holy Qur'an 7:33]

It is the Hadith S.A.W that,

"Once a young man came to the Prophet (S.A.W) asking permission for committing fornication. The people, then, started to rebuke him and said, "shush, shush." Then he (S.A.W) asked him, “Do you like it for your mother?” “No may Allah make me a sacrifice for you”, the man replied. “So are people.” the Prophet (S.A.W) asked again, “Do you like it for your daughter?” No may Allah make me a sacrifice for you,” the man replied. "So are people." The Prophet (S.A.W) commented. The Prophet asked once more, “Do you like it for your sister'?" the man replied “No may Allah make me a sacrifice for you.” The Prophet (S.A.W) commented. “So are people.” The Prophet (S.A.W) eventually asked, “Do you like it for your aunt?” The man replied" No may Allah make me a sacrifice for you.” The Prophet (S.A.W) commented, so are people." Whereupon the Prophet (S.A.W) placed his hand upon him and said, "O Allah! May you forgive his sins, purify his heart and make him chaste. The young man did not pay attention to any thing else thereafter.

[Reported by Al-Hakim]

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Wallaikum assalam, Thank you for the answer bro, can you tell hw to repent for ths.

Also please suggest if the husband is impotent and dont have sexual desire wht the girl has to do....

Is marriage between my friend and his mami is permisible in islam,

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