im 17 years old currently a student of A levels I have an embarrassing problem... I used to masturbate and since 2 months im trying control it and succeeded... but its been a week or so im getting a lot lot of sexual urges and I couldn't finish them..... I masturbated please guide me if i can masturbate like SOMETIMES to get rid of these urges I cant get married yet as I have to complete studies

asked 4411138 UnknownUser's gravatar image

masturbation in Islam is a sin I'm not sure if there are any excuse to do it, but I'm not sure so I hope someone who knows can help you.

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answered 4510 AllahuAkbar's gravatar image

Can you show me with proof from Quran or a strong Hadith? In the Quran it says "or what your right hand possess" People translate it as slave woman, but to me it sounds like masturbate.

(Jul 22 '13 at 12:40) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

In English: {...And those who guard their private parts, Except in the case of their wives ... surely are not to be blamed, But he who seeks to go beyond this, is that go beyond the limits} [Quran, chapter 70, verse 29-31]

And in Arabic: قال الله تعالى: {والذين هم لفروجهم حافظون إلا على أزواجهم أو ما ملكت أيمانهم فمن ابتغى وراء ذلك فأولئك هم العادون}.

(Jul 22 '13 at 20:29) AllahuAkbar AllahuAkbar's gravatar image

But brother, don't you know what "And those who guard their private parts, Except in the case of their wives" means? That you are not allowed to expose your private parts to anyone except your wife, it doesn't mean that you can't expose it to yourself. I still find no clear proof that masturbation is haram. But if you masturbate too often, you get lazy and you wait longer for marriage. Allahu alem.

(Jul 22 '13 at 21:43) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

Praise be to Allaah. Masturbation (for both men and women) is haraam (forbidden) in Islam based on the following evidence: First from the Qur’aan: Imam Shafi’i stated that masturbation is forbidden based on the following verses from the Qur’aan (interpretation of the meaning): "And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, - for them, they are free from blame. But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors." 23.5-7 Here the verses are clear in forbidding all illegal sexual acts (including masturbation) except for the wives or that their right hand possess. And whoever seeks beyond that is the transgressor. "And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah enriches them of His bounty." 24.33. This verse also clearly orders whoever does not have the financial means to marry to keep himself chaste and be patient in facing temptations (including masturbation) until Allah enriches them of His bounty. Secondly, from the sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him): Abdullaah ibn Mas’ood said, "We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatsoever. So Allaah’s Messenger said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Bukhari:5066. The hadeeth orders men who are not able to marry to fast despite the hardship encountered in doing so, and not to masturbate despite the ease with which it can be done. There are additional evidences that can be cited to support this ruling on masturbation, but due to the limited space we will not go through them here. Allaah knows what is best and most correct. As for curing the habit of masturbation, we recommend the following suggestions: 1) The motive to seek a cure for this problem should be solely following Allaah’s orders and fearing His punishment. 2) A permanent and quick cure from this problem lies in marriage as soon as the person is able, as shown in the Prophet’s hadeeth. 3) Keeping oneself busy with what is good for this world and the hereafter is essential in breaking this habit before it becomes second nature after which it is very difficult to rid oneself of it. 4) Lowering the gaze (from looking at forbidden things such as pictures, movies etc.) will help suppress the desire before it leads one to commit the haraam (forbidden). Allaah orders men and women to lower their gaze as shown in the following two verses and in the Prophet’s hadeeth (interpretations of the meanings): "Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allah is all-aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.) ..... " 24.30-31 Allaah’s messenger said: "Do not follow a casual (unintentional) look (at forbidden things) with another look." Al-Tirmidhi 2777. This is a general instruction by the Prophet to abstain from all that may sexually excite a person because it might lead him/her to commit the haraam (forbidden). 5) Using one’s available leisure time in worshipping Allaah and increasing religious knowledge. 6) Being cautious not to develop any of the medical symptoms that may result from masturbation such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and/or back pain. More importantly, feeling of guilt and anxiety that can be complicated by missing obligatory prayers because of the need to shower (ghusl) after every incidence of masturbation. 7) Avoiding the illusion that some youth have that masturbation is permissible because it prevents them from committing illegal sexual acts such as fornication or even homosexuality. 8) Strengthening one’s willpower and avoiding spending time alone as recommended by the Prophet when he said "Do not spend the night alone" Ahmad 6919. 9) Following the Prophet’s aforementioned hadeeth and fast when possible, because fasting will temper one’s sexual desire and keep it under control. However, one should not overreact and swear by Allaah not to return to the act because if one does not honor one’s promise, one would be facing the consequences of not living up to one’s oath to Allaah. Also, note that medication to diminish one’s sexual desire is strictly prohibited because it might permanently affect one’s sexual ability. 10) Trying to follow the Prophet’s recommendation concerning the etiquette of getting ready for bed, such as reading well-known supplications, sleeping on the right side, and avoiding sleeping on the belly (the Prophet forbade sleeping on the belly). 11) Striving hard to be patient and chaste, because persistence will eventually, Allaah willing, lead to attaining those qualities as second nature, as the Prophet explains in the following hadeeth: "Whoever seeks chastity Allaah will make him chaste, and whoever seeks help from none but Allaah, He will help him, and whoever is patient He will make it easy for him, and no one has ever been given anything better than patience." Bukhari:1469. 12) Repenting, asking forgiveness from Allaah, doing good deeds, and not losing hope and feeling despair are all prerequisites to curing this problem. Note that losing hope is one of the major sins punishable by Allaah. 13) Finally, Allaah is the Most Merciful and He always responds to whoever calls on Him. So, asking for Allah’s forgiveness will be accepted, by His will. Wallahu a’lam. And Allah knows what is best and most correct.

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answered 1.0k1935 Irfan%20Alam's gravatar image

"Illa AAala azwajihim awma malakat aymanuhum fa-innahum ghayru maloomeen"

Can some one who know Arabic 100% translate this into English? Please just honestly translate, word for word. Because when I read the Quran, there are 6 different translates.

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It is not allowed and is a sin... you can see http://www.eastessence.com/

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The exact link should be provided which contains the answer of this question and not the website address. Otherwise it will be considered as advertisement and will be deleted.

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