Dear brother I have relation with a divorced women. We are willing to marry and validate the relationship? Can we keep our marriage in secret?

asked 4411138 UnknownUser's gravatar image

absolutely not there are two conditions for halal marrige the first is the approvel of the bride and groom the second one is the announcement ,getting married in secret is definitely HARAM!!!!!!!

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answered 2344 tokabo's gravatar image

Can you explain more about the announcement? and tell me details about the procedures of marriage?

(Jul 23 '13 at 19:10) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

السلام عليكم sorry for being late junaed I just saw ur comment ,when I say announcement I mean any kind of announcing the most common way is a wedding party maybe an add in a magazine or newspaper or anything that would assure to people that that man and woman are husband and wife or even wearing a ring I think is announcing marrige,and to give u more detail about the rules visit http://www.justaskislam.com/34/rules-for-marriage-in-islam/ very important rules, about no3 (offer and acceptance) could be anything not just money anything as a present even a few verses of quran he would help her to learn , as for the procedures that is it agree and marry but some societies have certain Ceremonies also very important a muslim man can marry a non muslim only if ahl alkitab اهل الكتاب (JEWISH OR CHRISTAN) only but a muslim woman CAN NOT marry but a muslim man . Ramadan mubark and congrats to any one getting married

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answered 2344 tokabo's gravatar image

Thanks for your precious information brother. I would like you to visit this link where I have describe the whole situation, http://www.islam.com/questions/17504/how-to-validate-a-haram-relationship-and-forgiven-by-allah. Would you please comments there too? would be very helpful if you do. Thanks

(Jul 24 '13 at 14:37) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

I commented do not mix up Allah's forgiveness and feeling sorry for what you did there are certain qualities which have to be in a women if you wish to marry according to islam think a lot about your choice marriage is not a game

(Jul 24 '13 at 15:20) tokabo tokabo's gravatar image

Yep and you need to make a special dua for getti merry who ever you want, try to talk to your parent because elderly are better solving problem like this because their have the experience. Thanks

(Jul 24 '13 at 15:22) Bibi Amina ♦ Bibi%20Amina's gravatar image

so ur marrying her? congrats..i guess

(Jul 24 '13 at 18:12) a_mohammed a_mohammed's gravatar image
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