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Salaam, I'm in a difficult position here and I hope you can help me understand. I have recently reverted to Islam coming from a christian family. Whilst not a Muslim I was in a 2 year "Relationship" with a Muslim. We became to love each other so much. He introduced me into Islam so i did my reasearch and felt strongly about Islam so I reverted. Me and my partner then ended the "relationship" as it is Haram. But now after months we are finding is so difficult to erase our feelings and love for one another, and to also stop talking is extremely hard. We had come to the conclusion that we have to marry to make this Halal as we do not want to commit sin but want to be happy together, his parents got involved then as he had to tell them. His mother has made it very clear she will not accept me because I am not a "Born Asian/Muslim" even though Allah swt made us all who we are, which she cannot understand. We understand we started off by doing wrong to which we ended and asked for forgiveness, we still feel so strong about one another and really want to start our life together. He does not want to upset his mother or do wrong by her but what she is doing is wrong by not accepting because I am born a white person? She should atleasteet me or give me a chance before judging? Would it be wrong on him if he left his family to make a new family with me? She cares more about tw Cultural side of things rather than the islamic side We are both in a very difficult situation as we do not want to commit sin but we do want to be happily married together ! Please help me. Thank you for taking your time out to read this

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Salam dear sister, Please do make dua for yourself and other around you, sister I will say try to dhow your faithful side to them and don't ever get upset or angry just ask Allah to help you and protect you.

I am so happy that you open you eyes and came to islam. Thanks

answered 63628 Bibi%20Amina's gravatar image

I will, and In Sha Allah they come true. But how do I show them how faithful I am and passionate I am about Islam. Jazakallah I am so happy too, it is the best thing I have ever done, I just want to be a good Muslim and live a better and happy life In Sha Allah.

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Be true to yourself, sister, and to the Lord of Mercy and Compassion. And if you try and please everyone you will make at least one person very unhappy: yourself.

I wish you all the goodness and happiness that Allah (Subhana wa Ta'ala) alone can provide. Place your hand in His, and you will not regret it.

(Aug 02 '13 at 04:54) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

Mashallah you have very strong and kind words, and I really appreciate that Jazakallah

(Aug 02 '13 at 07:30) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

You are very welcome, sister.

Glad to be of help.

(Aug 02 '13 at 08:37) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

When a person intends to send a proposal for marriage, he must pray two rakat prayers, praise Allah and recite the following invocation: بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمنِ الرَّحِيْم اَللّهُمَّ اِنِّى اُرِيْدُ اَنْ اَتَزَوَّجَ فَقَدِّرْ لِىْ مِنَ النِّسَّآءِ اَعَفَّهُنَّ فَرْجًا وَّ اَحْفَظَهُنَّ لِىْ فِىْ نَفْسِهَا وَ مَا لِىْ وَ اَوْسَعَهُنَّ لِىْ رِزْقًا وَ اَعْظَمَهُنَّ لِىْ بَرَكَةً فِىْ نَفْسِهَا وَ مَا لِىْ اَنَّىْ اَتْرُكُ فَقَدِّرْ لِىْ مِنْهَا وَ لَدًا طَيِّبًا تَجْعَلَهُ خَلَفًا صَالِحًا فِىْ حَيوتِىْ وَ بَعْدَ مَوْتِىْ. Transliteration: Bismillah hir Rah’maanir Rah’eem Allaahumma inni oreedo an atazawwaja faqaddirli minannisaa-e- a-’affahunna farjawn wa ah’faz’ahunna li fi nafseha wa maali wa aw sa-a’-hunna li rizqan wa a’-z’amahunna li barakatan fi nafseha wa maali anna atroko faqaddirli minha waladan t’ayyaban taj-a’lahu khalafan s’aaleh’an fi h’ayaati wa ba’da mauti. Translation: In the name of Allah the Beneficent, the Merciful. O Allah! I intend to marry. Therefore destine for me the most chaste of women and one who would, for my sake, guard herself and my property. Who shall be most auspicious for increase in sustenance and bounties. Then from her womb bestow a pure son who would be my sweet reminiscence in my life and after my death.

answered 63628 Bibi%20Amina's gravatar image

This is the dua my belove sister please do remember me,my family and other muslim in your dua and thanks Allah for what he has give you and send blessing upon our belove prophet Muhammad swa and the other prophet and the angel to. May Allah accept your prayer your dua. Thanks

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