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What judgement our Islam religion gives on " two brothers under one roof and having minor dispute not talking to each other for more than one year".

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Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

Bismillahhir rahmanir rahim: بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ اﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

we all quarrel and don't talk to each other and that is human so u have 3 days to reflect on ur actions and try to make things right more than three days of not talking with each other is a sin but a whole year between two brothers under the same roof is an outrage

عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ عَنْ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ : ( آيَةُ الْمُنَافِقِ ثَلَاثٌ : إِذَا حَدَّثَ كَذَبَ ، وَإِذَا وَعَدَ أَخْلَفَ ، وَإِذَا اؤْتُمِنَ خَانَ ) رواه البخاري (33) ومسلم (59)

وعَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ :

( أَرْبَعٌ مَنْ كُنَّ فِيهِ كَانَ مُنَافِقًا خَالِصًا ، وَمَنْ كَانَتْ فِيهِ خَصْلَةٌ مِنْهُنَّ كَانَتْ فِيهِ خَصْلَةٌ مِنْ النِّفَاقِ حَتَّى يَدَعَهَا : إِذَا اؤْتُمِنَ خَانَ ، وَإِذَا حَدَّثَ كَذَبَ ، وَإِذَا عَاهَدَ غَدَرَ ، وَإِذَا خَاصَمَ فَجَرَ )

رواه البخاري (34) ومسلم (58)

Hadith number 1282: Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Messenger (salla allahu alayhe wasalam) said, "There are three signs of a hypocrite; when he speaks, he lies; when he makes a promise, he breaks it; and when he is trusted, he betrays his trust." (Agreed upon) Al-Bukhari and Muslim reported the hadith of Abdullah ibn Omar with this addition: "and when he quarrels, he abuses."

so what ever happened they must stop this before it gets even more uglier and they get married and have kids and stop them from seeing each other (that is totally haram) i mean really what happened they are brothers u have to tell them that what they are doing is haram and Allah knows best i am not sure but they could go to hell if they don't make up ,scholars have two opinions about making up either the relationship goes back exactly the way it was or they could just say good morning ,Assalamu’alaikum , good night happy eid but of course things going the way they were is better but if it is that bad they should at least greet each other and then i hope everything will return the way it was ,the one who starts talking will talk more thawab and if u help them make up u to will .

may Allah help you help them

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