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Thank you please tell me my husband likes me to dress in short skirts at home because I am white he is Pakistani man but says its ok for is father to see me he says it is covered under sharia law. Is this so, I do not want to get into any trouble

asked 85 lindashoapa's gravatar image
closed Sep 02 '13 at 01:01 sadie ♦ 1.6k315 sadie's gravatar image

I want to see sharia law men to discuss with them problem

(Aug 07 '13 at 17:16) lindashoapa lindashoapa's gravatar image

yes before we were not married but now we are and have been some months

(Aug 07 '13 at 17:21) lindashoapa lindashoapa's gravatar image

yes you can answer this for me Sadie

(Aug 09 '13 at 15:55) lindashoapa lindashoapa's gravatar image

Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

Bismillahhir rahmanir rahim: بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ اﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

وَقُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنَاتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِنَّ وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا ۖ وَلْيَضْرِبْنَ بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَىٰ جُيُوبِهِنَّ ۖ وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا لِبُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ آبَائِهِنَّ أَوْ آبَاءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَائِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَاءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ إِخْوَانِهِنَّ أَوْ بَنِي إِخْوَانِهِنَّ أَوْ بَنِي أَخَوَاتِهِنَّ أَوْ نِسَائِهِنَّ أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُهُنَّ أَوِ التَّابِعِينَ غَيْرِ أُولِي الْإِرْبَةِ مِنَ الرِّجَالِ أَوِ الطِّفْلِ الَّذِينَ لَمْ يَظْهَرُوا عَلَىٰ عَوْرَاتِ النِّسَاءِ ۖ وَلَا يَضْرِبْنَ بِأَرْجُلِهِنَّ لِيُعْلَمَ مَا يُخْفِينَ مِن زِينَتِهِنَّ ۚ وَتُوبُوا إِلَى اللَّـهِ جَمِيعًا أَيُّهَ الْمُؤْمِنُونَ لَعَلَّكُمْ تُفْلِحُونَ ﴿٣١﴾

And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which [necessarily] appears thereof and to wrap [a portion of] their headcovers over their chests and not expose their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers, their brothers' sons, their sisters' sons, their women, that which their right hands possess, or those male attendants having no physical desire, or children who are not yet aware of the private aspects of women. And let them not stamp their feet to make known what they conceal of their adornment. And turn to Allah in repentance, all of you, O believers, that you might succeed. (31)

so ur husband's father is a mahram (he can't marry u)

The ‘awrah of a woman in front of her mahrams such as her father, brother and nephew is her entire body except that which usually appears such as the face, hair, neck, forearms and feet. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): check this link for more details

so u can take off the hijab in front of him show ur hair ,neck, hands feet but not legs ,also make ur husband check that link if he insists


answered 2394 tokabo's gravatar image

i forgot to say that that applies on trusted women u know someone women talk a lot also for maharms so if u have an alcoholic uncle (Insha Allah u don't)or if any of ur maharms can't be trusted then u can't take off the hijab in front of him - Fi Amanullah -

(Aug 09 '13 at 17:12) tokabo tokabo's gravatar image

yes his father likes drink his mum is ok with me but she sez its ok for father to see me she says good for them

(Aug 27 '13 at 08:45) lindashoapa lindashoapa's gravatar image

My husband is dominant with me and always me dressed in short skirt for when he comes home sita is mother tells me to obay, he sez he likes me as his white doll. I do not want him to see my texts as he will give me trouble, his father is always having drink and tells me he likes me dressed that way too, I tell him to stop pauing me.

answered 85 lindashoapa's gravatar image

Its not okay I've told you thus sister. Where is your honor? Only your husband should see you . That means no one else. Sister please listen its not okay. Keep your body covered in front of his family. Salam

(Aug 30 '13 at 08:27) sadie ♦ sadie's gravatar image

What the brother told you is the truth. Your face,hair,forearms,feet ,hands are the only skin you can show in front of his family.

(Aug 30 '13 at 08:30) sadie ♦ sadie's gravatar image

yes I am cooling him down it is getting better now

(Dec 10 '13 at 17:53) lindashoapa lindashoapa's gravatar image

You can take off your hijab only[in front of your father in law) but in no way you should roam around in skirts and shorts as it is against the modesty of muslim women. therefore both your husband and father in law is not to be obeyed in this circumstance... Politely make your husband understand the concept of modest dressing which Islam has preached... Wassalaam

(Dec 11 '13 at 12:26) Ahmadomar Ahmadomar's gravatar image

I think I will have to take him in front of sharia council because he as threatened me that I have to obey him.

(Dec 11 '13 at 15:31) lindashoapa lindashoapa's gravatar image

I will have to obey him as he says

(Dec 26 '13 at 15:17) lindashoapa lindashoapa's gravatar image
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