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My now exfiance is suddenly realizing I hit my breaking point for ignorant cruelty and that I'm through with him FOREVER. If he comes after me is it ok to shoot him in the leg or foot until the police arrive? We may have a fight to the death on our hands if he is really that stupid. I guess some rich men think they are entitled to haram because of their duplicity....donate mpay zakat so he doesnt feel guilty about being a party boy sex slave wallering in a cess pool of aids herpes stds to no end et etc. I cant live with that. I hope Allah doesnt mind.

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closed Aug 16 '13 at 02:52 sadie ♦ 1.6k315 sadie's gravatar image

I can't imagine what attracted you to this 'filthy rich' man in the first place!!

(Aug 14 '13 at 05:30) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

now now paul,

i don't know if you have noticed, but some muslims don't date before they get engaged. some of them won't even mix with the opposite sex. what i'm saying is that she may have become engaged before she knew of his propensities.

layla, what state are you in? come to florida, we have a stand your ground law. i would suggest a gun called "the judge". it's a pistol that can shoot .410 shootgun shells. not sure what kind of kick you can handle. might want to visit a gun range.

mike malzahn

(Aug 14 '13 at 12:53) abul rauf abul%20rauf's gravatar image

haha...u can talk to the dude b4 u get engaged. and...usually those kinda things show. i think its a pity party :P

(Aug 14 '13 at 13:34) a_mohammed a_mohammed's gravatar image

Ah, you got me there, Mike!

(Aug 14 '13 at 14:11) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

a_mo, you maybe right. plus i have since read her other posts. she doesn't appear to be in a "locked in a room to guard her virginity" type situation. she has a job and a 22 year-old daughter. as for things that show. you maybe suprised as to how two faced some people can be. but you are also right on that post. call the cops. get a restraining order, then go buy a gun.

paul, what's wrong with pepsi? spare the rod spoil the child. well at least you got a reprive until the end of business day. mom was the disapinarian in our house. damn elm tree. endless supply of switches.

(Aug 15 '13 at 12:34) abul rauf abul%20rauf's gravatar image

:) im usually right about people :P

(Aug 15 '13 at 15:25) a_mohammed a_mohammed's gravatar image
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.....good luck with that. u might get taken in by cops tho. ma salama

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Aoa sister!

I am a servant of Allah Almighty, still studying Islam and may Allah ever prevent me from misguiding someone. What I really want to say is only Allah can help you and guide you. Only He can save you and answer your call, answer your prayers and give you the strength to fight your trials. So seek Allah's help throught prayer and dua.

Allah says in the Quran: “And when My servants ask you, [O Muhammad], concerning Me - indeed I am near. I respond to the invocation of the supplicant when he calls upon Me. So let them respond to Me [by obedience] and believe in Me that they may be [rightly] guided.” [2:186]

“Or, Who listens to the (soul) distressed when it calls on Him, and Who relieves its suffering, and makes you (mankind) inheritors of the earth? (Can there be another) god besides Allah? Little it is that ye heed!: Sur’ah 27 (An-Naml), ayah 62

And your Lord says, "Call upon Me; I will respond to you. Indeed, those who disdain My worship will enter Hell [rendered] contemptible.” [40:60]

According to Sahih Muslim, Hadith 6499, Narrated by Abu Dharr, :

Allah's Messenger (SAW) said: that Allah, the Exalted and Glorious, stated: 'He who comes with goodness, there are in store for him ten like those and even more than those; And he who comes with vice, it is only for that that he is called to account. I even forgive him as I like, and he who draws close to Me by the span of a palm I draw close to him by a cubit, and he who draws close to Me by a cubit I draw close to him by the space (covered) by two hands, and he who WALKS TOWARDS ME I RUSH TOWARDS HIM, and AND HE WHO MEETS ME IN THE STATE THAT HIS SINS FILL THE EARTH, BUT NOT ASSOCIATING ANYTHING WITH ME, I WOULD MEET HIM WITH THE SAME (VASTNESS)OF PARDON (ON MY BEHALF)".

I also strongly recommend that, for such a topic about which not many people have knowledge in order to correctly guide you, you ask brother Burhan on this website: There are scholars on this website who mashAllah guide well.

Here are more links to help you Insh-a-Allah find legitimate, God fearing scholars: and

This is about Prayer and Dua and if you ever feel your prayers are not being heard/ answered:

May Allah help you and guide you! (Ameen)

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