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me and my guy are staying far away from each other,our family know about us because we have been customarily engaged thus he has payed my bride price. he is suffering from sexual desire and want to help him out since he does not want to watch porn videos. can i help him by sharing naked pictures because in my opinion am now his wife but dont know if it allowed in islam. please help us

asked 1111 khanshao's gravatar image

The sister above is correct but the difference between her situation and your situation is significantly different.

She is married while you are only engaged. Your "guy" is not "suffering" from sexual desire, all men have sexual desire; he is suffering from lack of restraint. Why is he in such a rush to gratify his sexual desire when he is engaged and will have the rest of his life to satisfy them? I would personally wait until the marriage has been officially settled in front of a mullah. Then you will be truly married.

Remember, the shaitan talks to our inner desires.

answered 0543145 UnknownUser's gravatar image

Never.if nikah has not taken place,its haraam.

answered 201 Ali%20A%20Mohamed's gravatar image

Did you just answer your own question???

answered 0543145 UnknownUser's gravatar image

Wow, she just answered her own question. This goes to show what lengths people will go to in order to feel OK about their own sins. Her moral compass gave her a feeling that sharing naked pictures with her fiance might still be haraam and the shaitan whispered to her "it's ok". I hope you found your answer sister. May Allah (swt) have mercy and guide you to the right path if that be your true intention. Allah knows best.

(Aug 20 '13 at 19:13) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

is is fornication cuz u r not married.may Allah guide u through d right path.

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answered 0 taiseer's gravatar image

yes because sex is allowed with marriage couples, so sharing naked pics can b allowed too since my husband has right over my body.

answered 1111 khanshao's gravatar image

they rnt married, just engaged, meaning no. and sharing pics like that isnt a good idea anyways, cuz u can always get hacked.

(Aug 20 '13 at 15:43) a_mohammed a_mohammed's gravatar image

How can you answer your own question? What is the point of asking the question then?? Were you feeling guilt for wanting to and possibly having already sent said naked pictures to your fiance?

(Aug 20 '13 at 19:15) UnknownUser UnknownUser's gravatar image

@MurtezaAFG i guess so. no point in dissecting what she did tho. maybe she found the answer somewhere else then posted it so others would know the answer...even though her answer was wrong.

(Aug 21 '13 at 04:55) a_mohammed a_mohammed's gravatar image
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