I never speak to any of my female colleagues and always avoid them recently one of my friend made a comment that you run away from females not due to fear of Allah but because of your fear and inability to communicate with females. That comment made me think whether he was correct or not. after lot of self realization i have concluded that my friend was not wrong. One of the reasons i do not communicate with females is i dont think it is right to speak to "ghair muharram" females as per our deen but this is not the only reason what my friend was telling is also correct i am scared and also lack the ability to communicate with females.
They say where there is emaan there is no place for fear and inferiority complex. To get rid of my fear and inferiority complex i think i should communicate well with the opposite sex and once i get rid of my fear i can alway keep a distance from them
what do you suggest