Assalamu Alaykum, my mother and father have had a very difficult relationship for some time, about 3 years ago they got separated and have not lived together since, although no official divorce was issued. The difficulties came when my father married for the 2nd time about 10 years ago. After his second marriage he made my mother sell her house, with the promise of buying another which never came, every year it would get more difficult for us, because he would always try take away from us his children, 3 sons and 2 daughters, and his 1st wife. He is very successfull and makes alot of money, When my mother married him he wasnt rich at all, now he claims he owes her nothing even though all his wealth was aquired during their marriage. Some of his assets are on our name children from the 1st wife, he has 6 children with his 2nd wife. After my parents separated he has been pushing us to deliver everything onto his name. He many times disowns us, and asks that we leave our future inheritence claim in writing. I am 100% sure that if we deliver everything to his name, the next day he wont even say hello to us. My mother spent with him for over 30 years isnt she entitled to anything? And his children? He stopped some of us from studying and asked to work for him. Then he fired us when he got bored. So we cant continue to study or find a respectfull job. What do we do? And our mother would you advise her a civil court? I know its a complicated question. Thank you very much.

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Wa Alaikum Salaam Brother/Sister

I guess I would suggest that you would take this up in civil court if you could not go back with your mother.Try to document everything he as said to you (Video recording,sound recording etc.) that way you have better chance with going back to your mother.

I suggest this only if you cant go back with your mother.

May Allah grant you success Ameen Inshallah :D

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another: holy cow.

(Aug 30 '13 at 13:53) abul rauf abul%20rauf's gravatar image

The only thing holy is Allah brother . Refrain from such and such speech. Salam

(Aug 30 '13 at 14:42) sadie ♦ sadie's gravatar image

how ya been today sadie? you got plans for the big weekend or are you working on labor day? no whole hog bbq i'm sure. it's just a joke. y'all take everything so seriously. that was going to be my new catch phrase for answers i agree with. well if that offends you whatever you do don't watch the old 70s batman. robin was fond of putting a holy infront of alot of things. such evil tv. plus batman was gay.

seems some debate as too if a black rock is holy. anyway you have a blessed day.

(Aug 30 '13 at 14:54) abul rauf abul%20rauf's gravatar image

Alhamdulillah I am good. And you? How is sobriety.... Hoping... Insha Allah. You said you shahadah yet mike? You know time is precious my brother( Insha Allah). I haven't done much research bit its my understanding that the stone was what Abraham stated to build the house of Allah with. I didn't know anything else other than that. Now as far as one kissing it I am not sure I would. I'd need proof and answered why the rasuol sallallahu allahi was Salam would do that. And mention its black because of all the sins well .. Idk BC Allah takes and wipes away our sins in sha Allah everyday all the

(Aug 30 '13 at 15:03) sadie ♦ sadie's gravatar image

Time. Not necessarily need to have any stone for that. Well the only thing to do in search for proofs. Hey you watch that video of the Ad nation. ? In sha Allah you did. There is proof of thier bodies found on earth. Salam

(Aug 30 '13 at 15:05) sadie ♦ sadie's gravatar image

i'm fine. the video that i posted? yeah i watched that like six months ago. i was talking to a muslim and he said there were two races of giants in arabia that allah destroyed because they wouldn't bow down to him. but did you notice on one of the slides the doorway was like 30ft tall but the over hangs in the courtyard were only like 10ft. you aren't talking about the supposed photos of a dig with giant skeletons. that was a hoax. photo shopped. they look pretty good but one has an archeologist standing on one of the skulls. no magic words for me anytime soon. but i might give my liver a

(Aug 30 '13 at 15:37) abul rauf abul%20rauf's gravatar image

reprive, but not until after labor day. got a case of beer at home calling my name. going out on my buddies boat tomorrow. it's a law in florida that you have to drink when you are on a boat.

you have a great weekend.

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