I am turning 18 dis year im desperate cause until now I have a impression that I wont be able to marry one day according to what I see muslim girls marry early and until no one came to ask my hand to marry what should I think or do according to what is happening?i am feeling very discomfortable with dis situation?i keep wondering whats wrong with me/

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Suniza,

Muslim girls according to the Islamic-based-traditions, as well as Christian and Jewish traditions all have ONE RULE which is when a girl/boy reaches puberty she/he can get married. Moreover, mankind have evolved and created their own tradition that is based on the secular understanding of life, of course, life has changed and became more expensive to control. Therefore, marriage age has been lifted to reach 30 in some countries. So we should also mention the economical aspect of things.

About your case, you do not have to worry, concentrate on your studies and Insha'Allah you will see the man of your dreams knocking your door when you lest expect it to happen.

Good Luck!

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(Sep 06 '13 at 12:39) abul rauf abul%20rauf's gravatar image

Pissed and happy,

how about you Mike ?

(Sep 06 '13 at 13:01) Muslim altaher Muslim%20altaher's gravatar image

i'm fine. are you british? you don't mean drunk by pissed? do ya? if duffy is haram that would surely be?

(Sep 06 '13 at 13:12) abul rauf abul%20rauf's gravatar image

Hahah

Nahh, It is indeed a BIG O' Haram as well. I am not British, I am Jordanian?

Where are you from ?

(Sep 06 '13 at 14:16) Muslim altaher Muslim%20altaher's gravatar image

tampabay, florida, usa. go rays. go bucs. so old king abdullah is hanging on. when his dad died i thought he said he was going to reform the kingdom, make it more democratic. no arab spring for you? all's i've heard about jordan was some of the tribal leaders sent the king a letteer a few years back telling him to get is wife under control? queen noor. is it?

(Sep 06 '13 at 14:52) abul rauf abul%20rauf's gravatar image

Yeah that is right,

The Kingdom is not living its best days. Tribal leaders including mine are puppets. The country is collapsing and we, surely, do have a spring of our own - but it has a different sort of taste.

I published an article about this - when I translate it into English I can send your way.

So we are counting down to joining the club (Spring Club)

(Sep 06 '13 at 15:01) Muslim altaher Muslim%20altaher's gravatar image

were the hell did i come up with noor? was that arafat's wife? getting old, losing my memory. oh well.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-middle-east-12400274

yeah email it to me. always find it interesting getting people's perspective from other parts of the world. american news sucks in general, but especially on the world stage.

wait that doesn't make sense arafat's wife was christian. noor is a muslim name, right, or would a christian arab use it as well. i'm going to google.

(Sep 06 '13 at 15:15) abul rauf abul%20rauf's gravatar image

doh, his mother.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Queen_Noor_of_Jordan

no headscarf on her either, hum.

(Sep 06 '13 at 15:21) abul rauf abul%20rauf's gravatar image

Haha,

Some times I feel like you are from Texas

(Sep 06 '13 at 15:22) Muslim altaher Muslim%20altaher's gravatar image

cause i say ya and y'all. yeah that is a southern thing. the only southern twang i usually use. i don't say fixinto, or yuanto. tampa bay isn't very southern in style. most people here are transplants. you have to go more to the center of the state to find real crackers.

(Sep 06 '13 at 15:55) abul rauf abul%20rauf's gravatar image
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Noor was the wife of late King Hussein. Oh please! do not start it on who has the worst news in the world. Sometimes I feel like we are living according to rules that came out of Pandora's box.

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well we just got al-jazeera america so that should help. unfortunately some people are upset about it. how anyone could be upet about a news channel is beyond me?

http://www.islamophobiatoday.com/2013/08/29/nys-assemblyman-wants-new-channel-dropped-from-cable-packages/

(Sep 06 '13 at 15:25) abul rauf abul%20rauf's gravatar image

SHUKHAR FOR THE ADVICES

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