Asalaam alaikum. I am a 21 years old muslim sister and I've been converted to Islam for 8 months now, Alhamdulillah. After one month of my Shahada I married my husband who actually was my logical reason of converting. Don't get it wrong, he was only the one who introduced me to Islam and thought me everything that I know today. He is a very good man and Inshallah a good muslim. Couple of months ago something must have been happened, and I don't know what exactly but since then he changed. He changed towards me and towards our marriage. We are arguing all the time, sometime not talking to each other for days. He says that I am only imagining stuff and bringing up stupid things and that's why I argue. I am trying my best to be a good wife of his despite my age (he is 34), I am trying to take care of the house, cook and look after him as much as I can. I put hijab on and cover myself, I pray and fast. I am in my final year of University plus I have a full time job as well, working six days a week and he is still complaining why did I not cook, this and that. While he only works couple of hours a day, as a taxi driver and I asked him to understand that I am only human and I am trying to look after him but I am tired sometimes and he could help me around the house as well. When I am trying to get close to him in bed, he says he is not in the mood and goes to sleep. Before we used to be together on an almost daily basis.
But the most recent thing that is concerning me is that on one Saturday night when he went to work, he came home for 10 min to pray Fajr and went back to work and only came home at 9 a.m, thing that never ever happened before. I asked where has he been but he says only work. I don't want to be suspicious and I am asking Allah SWT to help me and show me the truth but I feel that something is going on. I am trying to talk to him about this but he says all the time just let it go. But we need to find a solution, he said what if there is no solution? I told him that is better to live alone than in a bad company. We used to be happy before and now I'm crying almost everyday. I wish and I pray we get back to our happy days. I love him to bits, but don't know what to do. Please help me!
May Allah help us all to be better muslims and guide us to the right path. Ameen