salams

i had a miscarriage 2weeks ago and i burried the baby at my mums place because the baby was still small but had features and today my dad wanted to water the flower we put on the grave and he found a deep hole going through the grave.. can someone please tell me what that means as i am freaking out

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edited Apr 24 '12 at 00:54 NesreenA ♦ 199722 NesreenA's gravatar image

im assuming an animal smelled it and took it away to eat i know its revolting but its probably the truth its better to bury it deeper and you dont have to bury it in a graveyard if it was that young so dont be afraid it was probably a cat or dog they eat their firstborn if they are extremely hungry

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answered 199722 NesreenA's gravatar image

oh my allah, i wish I knew the answer, but that's scary! god bless

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answered 33 Pali_GQ's gravatar image

Salam,

There are things we can not explain but I ask Allah that he will replace with a healthy baby in future Insha'Allah.

If the baby that has passed away was 4 months or more then this case the child's soul had entered in his body and therefore is treated as the same of a person who's alive and then dies and that is washing the body and then praying over it then to bury it with the rest of the Muslims.

therefore, if your baby was 4 months and older then that is what you should have done and if you have done that then you should have buried it with the rest of the Muslims where they are buried and you should not have buried it in your back yard or where you live or your mum lives too, this is what Islam teaches us and we must follow and take our guide from it. And I would advise you to go to your local Masjid and speak to the scholars there and tell them what has happened and they will inform you what to do next because the baby should not have been buried where your mum lives or anyone's back yard. Allah knows best.

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answered 3443 caabi's gravatar image

Assalamualaikum sister. istifar my sister. astagfirrullahaladzim. astagfirrullahaladzim. astagfirrullahaladzim. its your blood sister. do you want to be treated like that if you died? just buried on your own backyard? alone? separated from anyone else? buried her with proper way my sister. islam way. we are muslim right? AL-FATIHAH.

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answered 2029 Muhammad%20Izammudin%20Ismail's gravatar image

1.1 بِسْمِ اللّهِ الرَّحْمـَنِ الرَّحِيم

1:2 الْحَمْدُ للّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِين

1:3 الرَّحمـنِ الرَّحِيم

1:4 مَـالِكِ يَوْمِ الدِّين

1:5 إِيَّاك نَعْبُدُ وإِيَّاكَ نَسْتَعِين

1:6 اهدِنَــــا الصِّرَاطَ المُستَقِيمَ

1:7 صِرَاطَ الَّذِينَ أَنعَمتَ عَلَيهِمْ غَيرِ المَغضُوبِ عَلَيهِمْ وَلاَ الضَّالِّين

(Mar 23 '12 at 23:29) Muhammad Izammudin Ismail Muhammad%20Izammudin%20Ismail's gravatar image

SALAMS THANKS FOR YOUR ANSA BUT MY BABY WASNT 4MONTHS OLD IT WAS 3MONTHS SHOULD I STILL HAVE BURRIED IT WITH THE REST?

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answered 112 mirna's gravatar image

salaam's I understand what you's are saying I am a Muslim aswell but the baby was only 3months and I asked the sheik he told me to bury it but not with everyone else as the baby wasn't fully developed yet

i am not a kufar to bury a fully developed baby in the back yard but as the baby was not fully developed I did what I did

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answered 112 mirna's gravatar image

Salam,

You did the right thing in asking the shaikh at your local masjid, and yes like I have said if the baby is less then 4months then it does not have the proper burial that a baby of 4months would have and may Allah give you a healthy child in future Ameen.

(Mar 26 '12 at 19:34) caabi ♦ caabi's gravatar image
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