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I had a boyfriend for two years during sixth form, as I didn't take my deen seriously, and I surrounded myself with bad company. I have just started uni, and I really regret it, I have the fear of hellfire now and of having disappointed Allah (SWT) and my parents finding out, to the point where I feel nausea when I think about it. I make sure pray now and read quran and surround myself with muslim girls who are much better muslims than I mashallah, hopefully they will rub off on me.

I am fully prepared to repent for the rest of my life if need be, but I read somewhere that adulterers are only allowed to marry adulterers. (I didn't sleep with him, but we did kiss and touch, does this qualify me as an adulterer?) how would i go about finding another adulterer? i would feel guilty not being 100% pure for a potential future husband, so if i can't find an adulterer is the solution to just not marry? I know it's not ideal in Islam, but I don't know what else to do...

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thank you so much! I had been feeling very depressed, but now I see Allah (SWT) is merciful, and I just have to stick to the right path from now on. Jazakallah khair!

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