Hey guys, it's AB again. I've been busy with wedding plans and getting my degree. As many know I'm still in a rock in a hard place with transition.
My new question this go around is forgiveness. I call my real a sperm donor. He has never been their for me, always in and out of jail, tries to be a parent , but he knows knowing about me but my name and birthday. He has multiple children with many women, and recently we had a fall out towards the end of my senior year of high school before graduation in may of this year, he called me disrespectful out of the blue when I gave him the information to graduation via facebook, because at the time I had no cell phone.
My brother informed me that he broke the news to our grandfather who then called me and asked would I be inviting anyone from their side of the family to my wedding. I didn't have an answer just yet because they have never made an effort to be a part of my life at all. I would attend family events on their side but my siblings and I just felt like we don't fit in with them. They only know our names.
Am I wrong for not wanting them to be apart of something so big in my life as this?