I recall Muhammad P.b.u.h. coming from a tribe of merchants and gold miners. During his life, he was in many battles, and wars for example in Karbala. How can one say Islam is a religion of peace, When Muhammad spread Islam to people by the sword.

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closed Nov 01 '13 at 11:28 Bibi Amina ♦ 60618 Bibi%20Amina's gravatar image

When you come up with a real question I'll answer it Insha Allah.

(Oct 28 '13 at 04:30) sadie ♦ sadie's gravatar image

This is a legitimate question.

(Oct 29 '13 at 08:30) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

who edited my question? This website is an abomination. Islam is not the religion of the world, it is just a religion, you are worse then Christians when it comes to forcing religion on others.

(Oct 30 '13 at 12:28) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

Sister\brother if your question has been answered can you delete the post please. Thanks

(Oct 30 '13 at 13:12) Bibi Amina ♦ Bibi%20Amina's gravatar image

la7, pray for me to delete it.

(Oct 30 '13 at 21:27) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

@kurdikurdistan, beloved there is no reason for your blatant disrespect, I beg you to have more manners, from your statement it is clear that you are not muslim and still we welcome you to express here amongst us muslims in our forum. That in itself is showing you respect. I appeal to your since of good character and I ask that you begin to display it while you are here on this forum. Salaam

(Oct 30 '13 at 21:40) yaqin ♦ yaqin's gravatar image

I was disrespected when my Question was edited by someone else. I do not appreciate it, I just want it known. Thank you for you're display of kindness. MaSalama

(Oct 30 '13 at 21:42) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

Understood beloved

(Oct 30 '13 at 22:00) yaqin ♦ yaqin's gravatar image

Sister/brother I ask u to delete the post if your question being answer because other user need answer for their question too and if you leave ur post like this then everyone will take part in ur question by answering ur question and leave Ing other question tone side. Salam

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Muhammad, pbuh, was a man of many talents, a Prophet, a messenger, a leader, a spokesmen, a political anlaysis, etc. In the Quran, it states, that we may not like a thing that is good for us. We should also note that wars have been waged since perhaps the beginning of time. History itself is all about wars. Religion is usually a key factor in wars. Christians have waged many wars too. To gain peace, war is necessary. The act of war brings about many benefits, though seemingly harsh, but mercy is within all. Many charities and people begin to pull together and help out the victims. It is a source of martyrdom for the fighters, It is an understanding and a sympathysing of other peoples plights. As for Islam being a religion of peace, yes it is, Islam means peace. And when you start to practice and mix with true sincere muslims, then you will understand. Peace is a concept that has many avenues. For messages to be conveyed in the time of Muhammad, being a very political time, war was necessary. If you read thoroughly the life story of Muhammad, and about all the battles that take place, then you will get a better understanding.. Maybe, someone else here can explain better than me.

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There is a war between good/truth and evil/falsehood since the enmity of Satan to our father Adam(pbuh). and as prophet Muhammad is the leader/messenger of truth, the evil of falsehood did not leave him alone.

though he was one of the noble family of Quraysh (who take care of the house of Allah re-constructed by prophet Ibrahim and his son Ismail(that house/kaaba is initially build by Adam)).. and he was known as the truthful and trustful, he got the mission of prophecy when he was 40 years old, and his invitation started in secret to the relatives and close friends and when the Mushrikeen(who associates others with Allah's worship) of Quraysh fought the muslim.. and some of them immigrated the 1st immigration to habasha(where there is a fair christian king who do not unjust people).. and the Mushrikeen could do not kill prophet Muhammad because of the protection of his uncle. so he keep inviting to Allah in public to even the delegation coming to do hijj in kaaba and some of them believed from medina/yathrib and welcomed the muslims immigrant, but after the death of his uncle the Mushrikeen wanted to kill him so he also (salla Allahou 3alayhi wa sallam) immigrated to yathrib) after spending 13 years in Makah, then he spend in Medina another 10 years where he started to build an islamic nation and he overcame all the challenges that one of it is the fight/war against the Mushrikeen who wanted to cover on the message of truth of Islam.. and he also made peace treaty with jews and other peaceful non-muslims and when some of them break the treaty he fought them and he overcame all his enemy by few numbers of muslims/ believers with strong faith in Allah and the Last day, he beated all his enemy.. few years after his death, Rome and Persia fall and never come again but Islam remained.. because it is made to be appearing over all other false religions, and to keep existing because prophet Muhammad is the seal of prophets and so his message should remain for the other generation, and still. still the fight between truth and falsehood and good and evil is on. but as usual when the truth is put next to falsehood, the falsehood will depart away.

so if you do not like war(as most of us), then blame the falsehood instead of blaming the truth(because truth should be presented and falsehood do not like that).

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wow, there you go. the noble arab will conquer. he says this to a kurd as proof of the peaceful nature of islam. believe as they believe or you will be beated. they know "THE TRUTH" anything other than islam is a falsehood which must be extinguished by the flaming sword of allah. the lord of light.

so who is the truth and who is the falsehood in syria, libya, egypt, tunisia? in iraq? the falsehood of the christians in bagdad have been beaten. the blasphemy of the shabak shall not stand as long as the true muslims are in charge of iraq.

(Oct 29 '13 at 10:53) mikejm mikejm's gravatar image
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Israel was built in the middle of arab/islam countries in 1947 to destroy the truth carried by muslim. (as promised to Rothschild by Belford)

since long time muslims are facing trials/battles with falsehood from Andalusia, crusaders/knight templers, and now against illuminati, freemasons/trilateral commission, council on foreign relation(CFR), builderberg, Clube of Rome, bohemian grove and bohemian club...etc.) or by another word with the secret society dirty/magician/kabbalistic people who are fighting Islam in secret and in public.. under what is known as "New World order"

(Oct 29 '13 at 13:23) inclined2truth inclined2truth's gravatar image

well i know who the rothschilds are and i've heard of the balfour declaration. clube/club of rome and bohemian club you got me?

anyway what does that have to do with the arabization of mosul and destructions of kurdish villages in the 70s and 80s?

(Oct 29 '13 at 14:30) mikejm mikejm's gravatar image

you left all the bloody history against Muslims and catch on one accident!! tell me about world war 1&2, USA (against the indian first and then) in Vietnam, Nagazaki and Hiroshima, Afghanistan and Iraq...etc, or the occupation of middle east, Africa and Asia via England, France, Italy, Holland, portugal or the serbs against Bosnian(after dividing Yugoslavia).. Chechnya.. Israel against Palestinian and Lebanon and Egypt and Jordan and Syria...etcetera tell me from your view who is the most bloody people; the muslims or the non-muslims?!!

(Oct 29 '13 at 22:06) inclined2truth inclined2truth's gravatar image

Jahbat Al Nusra and all the other Islamists will be beat, because Evil does not prevail. Jahat al Nusra, the sunni chained a 6 year old alawi girl to a fence and forced her to watch her entire family murdered. If this is Islam, then I spit on the foundation of it.

(Oct 30 '13 at 01:32) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

So what I am a Kurd? Salahadin was a Kurd and he saved Arabs from total destruction from the Crusade, show some respect terrorist.

(Oct 30 '13 at 01:33) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

You talk of peace, but know nothing about it.

(Oct 30 '13 at 01:34) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

Also I am not a Sister nor a Brother, I am a man of consequence and fact.

(Oct 30 '13 at 01:36) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

Let's talk about Iraq, so Saddam was murdering civilians and gassing Kurds and Shia, that probably means nothing to you, because you are Sunni. Uday Hussein would rape iraqi school girls and dump their bodies in dumpsters. Chechens cut the heads off young Russian soldier who were armed with only a knife, in Dagestan, and they made them watch as they chopped the head off the other, until it was their turn. Let's look at History, let's look at the Mughal empire which murdered Sikhs and Hindus, the Ottoman Empire which raped bosnia and forced young bosnian men to be Jannisaries.

(Oct 30 '13 at 01:40) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

If you want to compare genocides and murders, do so with somebody else, it makes me sick. If Islam is truly a religion of peace, then why are Muslims slaughtering each other in the Middle East, and why are they killing civilians?

(Oct 30 '13 at 01:42) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

well, i think he was comparing them with me. i'm a white guy and an america. standard deflection technique from the muslims, when faced wiht the truth about their religion.

I2T, you missed a whole lot of history too. i'll start at the begining for america, revolutionary war, war of 1812, mexican american war, as you mentioned the genocide of the native american population. you know what sherman said, the only good indian is a dead indian. small pox in blankets, wounded knee, etc. etc. the civil war, spanish american war, remember the maine. and yes ww1&2 korea, and on and on. and some missed

(Oct 30 '13 at 11:55) mikejm mikejm's gravatar image

for sure. have you heard of the tusguegee expeniments? we just apologize to someone in south america for infecting their people with gonarea to experiment on them. anyone who tells you america, or the europeans, are nations of peace or even worst follow a perfect ideology is clearly a liar and an idiot. see we put our history in books and sometimes in the past it was sugar coated. but we are getting away from that. we don't go around saying all our wars have defensive and we have never killed anyone unjustly. we live up to our history, you should try it.

Jannisaries? hand cannoners? AOE?

(Oct 30 '13 at 12:03) mikejm mikejm's gravatar image

The topic is, is Islam a religion of peace? Don't tell me you're one of those Americans turned Jihadi hahaha. Anyways is Islam a religion of Peace? From what I have seen, no Islam is not a religion of peace, of course the US has done wrong so have many other countries, but the Topic is religion, not countries. Quit you're brainwashed anti western antics, and grow a pair. From the hypocrisy I have seen, Islam is most certainly not a religion of peace, and I can assure you half the world knows this.

(Oct 30 '13 at 12:32) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

You must have joined Islam because of the brotherhood/sisterhood. hahaha did you're family leave you or something? you can't replace love with religion, because if you were a non muslim, they would treat you like dog shit you would find on the sidewalk. It's fake love man, get with it..

(Oct 30 '13 at 12:34) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

Also Islam is not my religion asshole, if anything Zoroastrianism or Mithraism was my religion, which existed 1,500 years before Islam even came into being.

(Oct 30 '13 at 13:02) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

are you talking to me? i'm no muslim. i'm an atheist. i think islam is one of the most violent and backward ideologies on the planet. i have no idea why inclined2truth said what he said, other than he thinks that justifies the brutal action of muslims today. i see three bombings in northern iraq today.

ah, the first monotheistic religion known to man. so muslims might call u a fire worshiper?

islam is not your religion, good to hear. mine either, i think your anger is affecting your reading comprhension.

(Oct 30 '13 at 15:42) mikejm mikejm's gravatar image

:))) so funny!!(ahhh the enemy of Islam), it is obvious that mikejm and kurdikurdistan are the same person. (my proof is that mikejm asked the question about kurd forgetting that he is signing in with mikejm and not kurikurdistan.. as he wrote the following;

anyway what does that have to do with the arabization of mosul and destructions of kurdish villages in the 70s and 80s? (yesterday) mikejm

(Oct 30 '13 at 19:46) inclined2truth inclined2truth's gravatar image

We are not the same person, but I am glad there are others that share my view. In the words of Muslims on the Iraqi streets, TFFFF Ibn kalb

(Oct 30 '13 at 21:32) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

no hard feelings mike :) from one atheist to another lol

(Oct 30 '13 at 21:37) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

I2T, you got it. not only i'm i a kurd but i'm the head of the illuminatti. conspirancies abound.

(Oct 31 '13 at 15:01) mikejm mikejm's gravatar image

KK, were you at these days? i had never heard of zoroastrians until i read a story on the bbc a few years back about the vultures in deli dying. of course the msulim drove the zoroastrians out of persia so now many are in india. anyway, they don't bury their dead. put them in towers for the vultures to eat them.

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Thank you for your question, dear sister in Islam. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “I was shown Hell and I have never seen anything more terrifying than it. And I saw that the majority of its people are women.” (Bukhari).

Statistically, the number of women exceeds the number of men both at present and at past (i.e. they form the majority of the human population in the world), so this hadith should have been the logical expectation. If the Prophet said that there is equal number or greater number of men in the hellfire, then that would have been statistically unexpected.

Furthermore, dear sister, there are many logical flaws in the waswasah that you are facing. May Allah help me explain this to you. E.g.Its stated that because men are usually the murderers, they deserve moreto be in hellfire. This ignores the fact that men and women are different, and hence sin differently. Just because one gender sins differently than the other because of the way Allah made them, resources, capabilities etc does not make either better or worse. eg. I cannot say most Bangladeshis are worse than most Australians because they refuse beggars, as there are no beggars in Australia.

Furthermore,dear sister,after youve consdrd the statistics, the Prophet warned the Sahabiyat why women would be the majority of the hell so the Muslimah of the Ummah would avoid what he warned. He warned them against cursing frequently and being ungrateful to their husbands. Tell me, by Allah, do you think the Prophet warned them because he wanted popularity money or power or to make them feel down? (Remember, women would also be majority of jannah). Rather, he warned them because he was sent by Allah as a Warner and to empower them against sin and to distinguish themfrom women of the kuffar.

Furthermore, another hadith of the Prophet indicate that women would also exceed men in Jannah. So women would exceed men in numbers both in Jannah and in Jahannam, just as they statistically exceed men in this world (not a hadith). Yet in another hadith, our Prophet said that one of the sings of the say of judgement is that The number of men will decrease and the number of women will increase until there are 50 women to be looked after by one man (Bukhari)

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Also isn't true that more woman follow the dajal? Salam

(Oct 30 '13 at 00:53) sadie ♦ sadie's gravatar image

I am a man of consequence and fact.

(Oct 30 '13 at 01:44) KurdiKurdistan KurdiKurdistan's gravatar image

I have some questions " it is said that hell 's population are women , most of the right? And then they wonder the aha ok, how come it's more women in hell than men when it is men who spread terror in the world, rape women / children , assault, murder , etc etc. .. and not only that, when it is they who do not care about their children , wives and must always behave as if they were kings? why? I read on an Islamic website that the reason for women are more in hell because they are ungrateful to their men , huh ? Ungrateful ? And why does Islam that men are smarter than women ? when it is the woman who takes care of everything and take care of our planet when it is men who plunder and destroy our small planet , what is this I see ... never thought that Islam was so ... I'm smart, intelligent and would never accept that a man is smarter than me ... feel offended .... terrible terrible ....

Because of this I have lost faith ....

Answer it if you want otherwise do not care.

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I have wondered this myself. If hardly any women are causing destruction in the earth, as it is mostly men, then why are there more women in hell than men? There are some things I don't get in Islam, and some stupid answers people give is complete bull crap.

(Oct 29 '13 at 13:25) answerer answerer's gravatar image

mary what happened to your Question...

(Oct 29 '13 at 14:32) mikejm mikejm's gravatar image
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Thank you for your question, dear sister in Islam. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “I was shown Hell and I have never seen anything more terrifying than it. And I saw that the majority of its people are women.” (Bukhari). Statistically, the number of women exceeds the number of men both at present and at past (i.e. they form the majority of the human population in the world), so this hadith should have been the logical expectation. If the Prophet said that there is equal number or greater number of men in the hellfire, then that would have been statistically unexpected.

(Oct 29 '13 at 23:56) UmarAbdullah ♦ UmarAbdullah's gravatar image
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Furthermore, dear sister, there are many logical flaws in the waswasah that you are facing. May Allah help me explain this to you. E.g.Its stated that because men are usually the murderers, they deserve moreto be in hellfire. This ignores the fact that men and women are different, and hence sin differently. Just because one gender sins differently than the other because of the way Allah made them, resources, capabilities etc does not make either better or worse. eg. I cannot say most Bangladeshis are worse than most Australians because they refuse beggars, as there are no beggars in Australia.

(Oct 30 '13 at 00:10) UmarAbdullah ♦ UmarAbdullah's gravatar image
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After youve consdrd the statistics, the Prophet warned the Sahabiyat why women would be the majority of the hell so the Muslimah of the Ummah would avoid what he warned. He warned them against cursing frequently and being ungrateful to their husbands. Tell me, by Allah, do you think the Prophet warned them because he wanted popularity money or power or to make them feel down? (Remember, women would also be majority of jannah). Rather, he warned them because he was sent by Allah as a Warner and to empower them against sin and to distinguish themfrom women of the kuffar. please read next comment

(Oct 30 '13 at 00:36) UmarAbdullah ♦ UmarAbdullah's gravatar image
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Furthermore, another hadith of the Prophet indicate that daughters of Adam would also exceed men in Jannah. So women would exceed men in numbers both in Jannah and in Jahannam, just as they statistically exceed men in this world. yet in another hadith, our Prophet said that one of the sings of the say of judgement is that The number of men will decrease and the number of women will increase until there are 50 women to be looked after by one man (Bukhari) Please read the next comment.

(Oct 30 '13 at 00:43) UmarAbdullah ♦ UmarAbdullah's gravatar image
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Listen it's not waswas as you say , I have a right to know everything related to my religion and why some things are as they are . Has nothing to do with waswas .

The right religion is a prefect religion without any errors and doubts but that is within the religion after making errors and mistakes.

Ok, but then I wonder why did not the Prophet said that there are more men in hell for everything he

says come from God and God knows what will happen singing he knows what will happen in the future and knew that it is men who strikes fear in our hearts and destroys our planet God knew this and endå

prophet has said this ? Do you understand how I think , What do you mean that men are created in one way and women in another way , yes, men and women are

created differently yeah I get that but it has nothing to do with the fact that men behave and perform like that bad actions , women can also do this but she thinks it 's horrible and would never

do such a horrible thing as one is capable of doing it .. and endå it is said that men are smarter than women .... this is totally wrong

And if the woman is ungrateful to her husband, but when the man is ungrateful to his wife , this is ok , or what Why mention it at all times that it is men men never woman

I have read the Koran, and it is mentioned several times that we need to show respect to our parents over and over again ... I understand because they are my parents and I exist because of the

But when it comes to a man who will be my husband so the man 's obvious show respect , consideration, and one must be able to compromise some things and get along , but when the men muslim non muslim

woman looks like a smaller creature and thinks he is smarter than her and therefore it is appropriate that he takes the decision , what is this ... I'm smarter than most men and most women , and would

never accept a man whether he is Muslim or not , we are both equal. Smart race has nothing to do with that you are a man or you're a woman, it 's something you're born with ...

The Prophet wanted might not scare any woman but I doubt that he said this and I want an explanation why it is always the woman and not the man .

If I understand you correctly, you're saying that men are created in a way that makes so that they commit these terrible acts, it is what you say ...

ALL ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS IF YOU DO NOT KNOW IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT YOU ARE A MAN AND YOU COMMIT like that AND WHEN YOU ARE A WOMAN TO COMMIT TO A WHOLE OTHER ACTION, BUT TO

SELECT AND WOMAN CHOOSES TO SURRENDER TO HER USE THEIR COMMON SENSE AND THE MAN CHOOSE TO DO THIS

BECAUSE HE DO NOT USE THEIR COMMON SENSE AND THIS IS MEANT course THAT HE IS NOT SMART AS HE STATES!

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I DEMAND EXPLANATION!!! WHY MEN SO OPPRESSED??? (Nauzubillah not my comnts]

WHY MEN LESS IN PARADISE?

WHY HADITH MENTION 2 WOMEN IN PARADISE IN RATIO TO 1 MAN WHEN MEN DO JIHAD (AGAINST BAD GUYS, NOT INNOCENT PEOPLE) AND NOT WOMEN?

WHY MEN GET NO MONEY IN MARRIAGE?

WHY MEN NEEDS TO SPEND FOR WOMEN AND WOMEN CAN KEEP WHATEVER MONEY SHE HAS ON HERSELF AND BUY GIFTS FOR HERSELF & THATS NOT SIN, BUT WHEN MEN USE MONEY ON THEMSELVES AND NOT FAMILY IS SIN??

WHY FATHER DESERVE 3 TIMES LESS SOMETHING THAN MOTHERS?

WHY MEN NEED AT DAWN TO GO MOSQUE WHEN WOMEN GET REWARD IN HOME??

(Oct 30 '13 at 07:44) UmarAbdullah ♦ UmarAbdullah's gravatar image

WHY HADITH MENTION SPECIAL REWARD FOR TAKING CARE OF TWO GIRLS AND NOT TWO BOYS??

WHY MEN GET NO BREAK IN PRAYER AND FASTING LIKE WOMEN?

WHY MEN AT PROPHETS (peace be upon him)'s TIME HAD TO GIVE THEIR LIFE IN BATTLE, AND MOST WOMEN 'EXCUSED?' WOMEN CAN FIGHT TOO, YOU KNOW.

WHY PARADISE LIES AT MOTHERS FEET? WHAT DID FATHER DO WRONG?

WHY WOMEN CAN EARN MONEY OR NOT EARN MONEY AND BOTH ALLRIGHT, BUT IF HUSBAND NOT EARN HE IS 'BAD'?

WHY PROPHET DID TASK OF WOMEN LIKE SOWING, AND COOKING, WHEN HIS WIVES DID NOT DO TASKS OF MEN?!!

WHY WHY WHY I CAN GO ON AND ON...

(Oct 30 '13 at 08:08) UmarAbdullah ♦ UmarAbdullah's gravatar image

Thank you for your comments and for your desire to know more about your religion. Ofcourse you have the right to know more about your religion. You see dear sister, It is unfair to concentrate on those aspects where Islam gave women less than men and not where Islam gave women more than men. One needs to look at a balanced and full picture.

InshaAllah We need to properly address each of your questions separately. This issue is very serious, as may affects your eternal fate.

I urge u meantime please please please spend some time and view this video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pESXwJYYcGo

(Oct 30 '13 at 08:32) UmarAbdullah ♦ UmarAbdullah's gravatar image

Dear sister, you have no idea.. You have no idea how much Islam has elevated the status of women, and raised them so high that no society law or system in the past present or future elevates women to such a level as Islam.

The man who brought the greatest change in the history of mankind to women's rights was our Prophet (peace be upon him), and changed women from some being similar to animals or worse to the queen of the house.

If you read the biography of the Prophet, and about the rights of the women then inshaAllah the veils of heedlessly and ignorance will be lifted from you.

(Oct 30 '13 at 08:37) UmarAbdullah ♦ UmarAbdullah's gravatar image

umar, first of all your stats are wrong. not sure where you got them but birth rates are pretty much 1:1, male to female. if anything they tend to skew towards more males being born, 1.05:1 male/female 1050 males to every 1000 females. you shouldn't go around spreading lies.

queen of the house. such heights. didn't a jinn steal the queen of sheeba's throne. there were already queens (of nations or at lest tribes)thousands of years before muhammad. never heard of cleapatra?

(Oct 30 '13 at 11:47) mikejm mikejm's gravatar image

InshaAllah I will provide my evidence when I have time soon.

(Oct 30 '13 at 18:06) UmarAbdullah ♦ UmarAbdullah's gravatar image

alrighty then?

(Nov 01 '13 at 14:46) mikejm mikejm's gravatar image
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You know there's a reason why you came to this world, you came in just like that without any reason there is a reason

Do you agree with this?

(Nov 03 '13 at 05:01) Meriam Meriam's gravatar image

are you talking to me? if so, yes there is a reason i came into the world. that reason being that my father's sperm penetrated my mother's egg and fertilized it. the fertilized egg attached to the uterin wall and i gestated for 9 months and was born. right?

(Nov 03 '13 at 12:46) mikejm2 mikejm2's gravatar image
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yes I'm talking to you, yes that's right, but the other reason that you even exist .. it was not you who chose to come to the world and you do not exist for fun...isnt it

(Nov 07 '13 at 03:03) Meriam Meriam's gravatar image

mary, i'm an atheist. so yes, i exist just for fun. or if nature had messed up in the formation of my dna i may exist just for pain and suffering.

"but the other reason that you even exist" what other reason?

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There are more women in the world than there are men, but this hadith says that there are more women in hell because they are UNGRATEFUL PROCEEDINGS AGAINST THEIR MEN have nothing to do to be more women in the world and if so why did not mention Prophet this

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Dear sisterSince I am very busy I urge you to please watch the video and fear Allah. I warn you of the hellfire where the disbelievers will abide forever.

I remind you of the Mercy of your Lord who loves tht His slaves turn to him in repentance

remindu words of Allah: trnsltn:

And [mention, O Muhammad], when your Lord said to the angels, "Indeed, I will make upon the earth a successive authority."

They said, "Will You place upon it one who causes corruption therein and sheds blood, while we declare Your praise and sanctify You?"

Allah said, "Indeed, I know that which you do not know."

(Oct 30 '13 at 08:54) UmarAbdullah ♦ UmarAbdullah's gravatar image

I demand an explanation , because I know what I'm talking about , you have not and you do not need to explain anything at all. I just wanted to see how you would articulate all this and if I would get the answer I need.

Ok, men do jihad, but what is it they wage war with it's other men , it is men against men .. what I want you to understand is that there are men who commit terrible crimes they ...

I have not asked the man to give me money just for us to get married , The thing is you need to separate when it comes to a man who has a family, it is he who has done so that these kids have come into the world and it is his job to make sure that they are fine and that they should be at the center and get all the attention they need ...

The mother has had a hell of 9 fucking months while he had a good time, and it is she who raise and care for until he grows up and the father has crapped in children throughout their upbringing ... what a father

I do not need anyone to take care of me, I can handle myself ... Why they do not get pus in prayer I know nothing about this ... woman gets menstrual so why should she refrain from prayer ...

To the woman takes care of the children, the home and make sure everything works as it should ... women can war and they are the strongest creature on this planet that I've seen, oh how she struggles but feel really sorry for them

To the men do not care about the woman, it is she who wears ... and die for the kid while his father have it nice and easy ... it's that simple

Women can make money, and they can feed themselves ...

To the woman takes care of most of the household and she has so much patience and struggle every day ... Women have followed the battles of the Prophet peace be upon him.

And we will go into the money and stuff so we can start with that if a father dies and he leaves behind a daughter and a boy to get the boy more than the girl and I understand the purpose of this and it is for that girl keeps her money while the guy marries and gives the money to his future wife ... and accept this

I concentrate on that because I felt offended as a woman and as an individual.

It does not matter how much God gave men and how much God gave the woman ... it's not what I put my energy, but I put my energy is only 3 things why does Islam that man is smatare than the woman and why is it more women in hell when it should be the opposite.   And why do men beat their wives .. you can not even answer this and you know that I am right and have points.

I know that Islam is the true and only religion, I will always think like this as I do right now until I get a real straight answer if it even exists, and I know that God understands this and God knows how I feel .. . I have read the Bible and the Torah reading and I love to read the Koran and I know and I know that you know that I am right in what I am trying to say and know that you are not capable and explain any of my questions ....

I do not understand how the angels knew that the people were those who pour out blood and puts corruption etc ... how did the Angels this .. they can not know what will happen in the future ... hmm that's a question I've always wondered about

I thank you for your answer ... and you do not answer my queries .... and there is no one who can do this

Peace

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answered 015 Meriam's gravatar image

Peace and blessings of Allah be upon you sister in Islam and all the believing men and women till the day of judgement. Thank you for your frankness. InshaAllah I will answer your question with whatever knowledge Allah gave me in due time, but before that I request you, sister in Islam, to commit (within yourself) one thing. If you receive your answer and these make sense, I want you to commit within yourself that you will submit to the truth and not turn away despite knowing the truth.

(Oct 30 '13 at 18:14) UmarAbdullah ♦ UmarAbdullah's gravatar image

You might think that I think of it like this because I'm a young woman, no it has nothing to do with it. I am fair to all männiksor whether they are Christian Jews, induer, Muslims, atheists, etc.. Black yellow, white, etc.. Men women, children, old

It is because of this, I hate men, no one has done anything, but I see what my father did to my mother and how my sister is treated by her husband and how stupid she can be and accept this.

I would never take crap from any man or woman ... and I would advise you men whether you are Muslim or non-Muslim, treat others as you want to be treated is my motto.

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AssalamuAlaikum

Sister Meriam has posted 3 questions that she requests an answer.

I pray that Allah Subhanahu wataAla guides her and allows me to write the answers properly which will be a source of her hidayah.

I must mention that I am very busy and do not have time to answer them all at once, but inshaAllah I will answer them gradually.

Q1: why Islam thinks women are less intelligent than men.

Ans:

I am not an Islamic Alim so I cannot explain to you the teachings of Islam, and the wisdom behind it on this topic. However, I was a student of Psychology and I teach colledge Psychology and other subjects. InshaAllah I can give you the answer from a PSYCHOLOGICAL PERSPECTIVE.

Whether men or women are more intelligent depends on what you mean by intelligence.

If you define intelligence as being more logical and analytical (and thats how we might understand the word intelligence from general English usage), then from a Psychological perspective, there is no doubt men are indeed more intelligent than women.

This is because studying the brains of men and women show that men's brains are more logical, analytical and mathematical and are more left brain oriented (i.e. the part of the brain we generally link to intelligence). In fact, men's brains have 6.5 times as much grey matter relating to general intelligence as compared to women.

While women have 10 times white matter in the brain relating to intelligence, white matter is responsible for connecting the information which is processed by the grey matter, which is posessed on a greater quantity by males.

Sister in Islam, dont get me wrong. This does not mean women are less blessed compared to males. Female brains are powerful in other aspects when compared to men, as they tend to be more superior in empathy, better at communication, more able to pick up emotional cues, better at communication, more able to learn languages, etc.

Furthermore, sister in Islam, the observations are the general trend, but there may be a few exceptions to this rule. You must remember that Islamic law focuses on the general and not the exception. I.e. A general rule would be that drinking poison kills you so its forbidden by many laws to drink poison, but there are exceptions where drinking poison may not kill the person..

After reading this Psychological explanation from a Psychology teacher (myself), I hope Allah guides you to submit to the truth and cures you from any doubt, and from feeling that any statement of the Prophet is not true. Ameen. Because from a Psychological perspective in the way we might define intelligence (i.e. as being more logical, and analytical) men are indeed more intelligent than women because of the different configuration of the brain.


Both men and women are created differently by Allah

Allah created men and women to be different, with unique roles, skills and responsibilities. Islam teaches that men and women have complementary, yet different, roles because it is best suited to their nature. These differences are not viewed as evidences of superiority or inferiority, but of specialisation. By fulfilling the mutual responsibilities, strong families , societies and communities are created by Allah's Mercy.

Also, emotionally, neither men nor women live a happy life without one another. Allah describes this beautifully by saying:

“They are clothing for you and you are clothing for them.”

Clothing provides comfort, warmth and security as well as making one look good – this is how the relationship between the husband and wife is defined in Islam.

“And among His signs is that He created for you wives amongst yourselves that you may dwell in tranquillity with them; and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts). Surely in this are Signs for people who reflect.”

Our Prophet (peace be upon him) by Allah's Mercy changed humanity's history of women's rights. He by Allah's help changed the lives of billions of women at current and in the past and in the future, freed them from oppression, and elevated them to the highest pedestal.

Respected sister in Islam, how can you even imagine Islam oppresses women, when there was or is no other system in human history that gives women as many rights as Islam?

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Asalaam o alaikum sister, meriam, I have read this ongoing battle of questions and replies. One thing that stands out to me is that you seem not to care for what is being advised to you. You say you are smart, perhaps above average !!! and yet you ask out of smartness and in an arrogant manner, that no reply will reconcile your mindset. This I can see clearly. You have witnessed atrocities by men to your fellow women family menmbers, yes!. Does this justfy every mans actions. Not all men are the same. Are these men you know of actually practicing Islam. A muslim is only a muslim if they practice. For many go around as a born muslim and never practice or have any such clue as to what their religion is about.

If you are so smart, take time to look around you and assess what is in your heart. For you sound very bitter and angry. This state of mind will decrease your so called intalligence, smartness, that you claim to have. Also your iman is in question here to. I am a revert and so honoured to shown back to the true path. I have never once questioned the state of man and womens status. As i learnt via The Quran, that man and women are equal. This is all i need to know. To ask questions of things you know nothing about and the reasons for can lead to loss of iman.

I too in my life, im now nearly 50, since reverting some 30 years now, i have witnessed some atrocities and mistreatment, but can not hold on to such grievances as they will tare a person apart. It is shatan that gets to us with such thoughts, that if we dwell on all the bad that happens to us or others then we will surely struggle to see sense and move on. These are just tests for us, and i feel you are taking other peoples problems to heart and damming your self in the process.

Do you think it is going to happen to you ,,, as you see others are in strife, this issue you have with men !!! Maybe all this could be put to good sense and wisdom, with your smartness and learn from all this. At least then, when you grow older and wiser, you will know exactly what to ask and to look for in a future husband. If you are as young as you seem to be, remember this. As we grow up, grow older, our minds change in thoughts and realisations and mature with knowledge and wisdom. This will happen to you also. May Allah increase your forsight and take away your misconceptions. Ameen.

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