men dream future wife (life style,sex).is it halal or haram

asked 16111 Ahamedali's gravatar image

As far as thinking about wife is concern , then its good and everybody has this kind of thought but as far as sexual fantasy is concern then it is in itself is not a sin unless you act upon it in illegal way because of the following hadeeth : Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said:“Verily Allah FORGIVES my Ummah for the EVIL THOUGHT that occur in their hearts until they DON'T SAY it VERBALLY or ACT upon it”. (Sahih al-Bukhari & Sahih Muslim). So sexual fantasy may not make you a sinner but what may lead to such fantasy is that you will get excessive urge towards sexual feeling and in order to relieve it you may adopt a wrong path like watching something which you should not watch or you go upon doing masturbation to relieve you which are sin. Therefore stop the evil thoughts as it may take you to a wrong path.... It is better to pray to Allah for good wife and good family using quranic supplication like 25:73 or 14:40-41.... Wassalaam Allah knows the best

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answered 804 Ahmadomar's gravatar image
edited Dec 23 '13 at 13:19

Thinking of marriage before it actually happens is lawful, but thinking of sex brings inappropriate ideas and imaginations, which makes the imagining of marriage haram.

When you think of marriage, think of a nice and humble and righteous woman marrying you and pulling you closer to Islam, that's what you should think.

But if you think about sex and life style, you make your imagination is Haram.

Glory Be To Allah, The Exalted in Might -- All Seeing, All Hearing.

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