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I have merry once to a men who has married twice which mean I am his second wife. We have slept separately from each other from the start, so that mean we don't have any physical relation between each other ( no sex plus sleep separate) or neither I want to have physical relation with him. I had told my husband many time about my feeling and to understand me however he alway watch women naked on the internet. I have also tried so much things to stop him watching thoses pictures but he doesn't respond me back . I am so upset and I don't know what to do? Can you please advice me what should I do in situation like this? and how to solve this problem between me and my husband.

I would like to mention this, I take islam to seriously and I have a strong faith in Allah and sometime I end up crying because I don't want to do something which is gunnah (sinful) in islam and which will make Allah angry at me.

Can any of you please advice me back according to islam because I am going through a lots of difficulty.

Salam may Allah bless you all with his mercy.

asked 153 rani786's gravatar image
closed Nov 25 '13 at 14:15

plz reply as soon as possible its request sir.

(Nov 20 '13 at 09:02) rani786 rani786's gravatar image

Sister if you merry to him and accept the marriage then there is no Gunnar on having sex with you second husband.

(Nov 20 '13 at 13:01) Bibi Amina ♦ Bibi%20Amina's gravatar image

but he divorced wid the 1 st wife. it is not matter sister.

(Nov 20 '13 at 13:57) rani786 rani786's gravatar image

Sister go yo community site and send me email from there then I will give you a link who soukd help you with your problem :)


(Nov 20 '13 at 14:04) Bibi Amina ♦ Bibi%20Amina's gravatar image

Need to be answer

**Mod don't you think this should be post in community site under relationship/marriage/marital issue**

(Nov 24 '13 at 17:43) Bibi Amina ♦ Bibi%20Amina's gravatar image


The question has been changed, so here is a new answer:

Sister, what you are doing is wrong. Once you married him, you should be letting him sleep with you. He is obviously frustrated, as he doesnt have a wife who he can get intimate with, so he goes to the internet and watches the dirty things he does.

Although he is sinful for this, you are also partially to blame, by not providing him with the intimacy and physical love he wants.

You need to loosen up, and let him sleep with you. As long as you spend plenty of time warming up and enjoying each other before actually engaging in intercourse, i am sure you will enjoy it too.


answered 1842 mufti%20saab's gravatar image

Mash Allah brother you alway came up with great answer. Salam May Allah increase you knowledge in Islam more :)

(Nov 23 '13 at 16:55) Bibi Amina ♦ Bibi%20Amina's gravatar image

ameen. ameen.

(Nov 23 '13 at 17:25) mufti saab mufti%20saab's gravatar image

Salam thats alot of madness. R u from the uk. Can you message me from the community site.

answered 1528 Faisal26's gravatar image

from india

(Nov 25 '13 at 14:11) rani786 rani786's gravatar image

Salam Sister, can you tell me what happen to your husband first wife? Why you don't want to have sex with him? Can you also explain your question in more detail.


answered 63628 Bibi%20Amina's gravatar image


it seems like he doesnt find you very interesting. wear only a short top and knickers, and walk about near him like this for a few days at night time. He should start getting excited with you and might start getting physical with you.


answered 1842 mufti%20saab's gravatar image

Salam brother or sister, can you read the question again. She Is saying that she doesn't want to have physical relation with her husband but he does I think?

(Nov 23 '13 at 15:46) Bibi Amina ♦ Bibi%20Amina's gravatar image

no, you read the question again. SHE wants the physical relation, HE isnt giving it to her.

(Nov 23 '13 at 15:51) mufti saab mufti%20saab's gravatar image

Brother sorry I edit her question again please check the question again :)

(Nov 23 '13 at 15:55) Bibi Amina ♦ Bibi%20Amina's gravatar image

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