Assalam allaikum...

Brother I am going through very much of struggle and failures in my life. Unable to get any success out of it. Its been long time I am suffering.

I am deprived of many kinds of happiness but with Allah (SWT) grace I am not broken apart because of sadness. I can say I have never done any sin in my life, may be done some mistake which is only harmful to me. I got strong faith in Allah, and always been good to everyone.

Now a situation has arrived like do or die. What to do, I feel like all doors of this world has closed for me. I don't have any physical or mental or financial strength to take my life any forward. Still there is one hope left, but first time I feel hopeless.

Please guide me.

asked 101 Taher786's gravatar image

My dear brother what is your question then ?

(Nov 27 '13 at 16:13) Bibi Amina ♦ Bibi%20Amina's gravatar image

My question was, what to do in situations which is beyond my patience and perseverance, if you can guide me ?

(Nov 27 '13 at 19:52) Taher786 Taher786's gravatar image

Assalam alaiykum brother, it is difficult to advise you when we do not know the nature of your problem. Many things could be making you feel in this way. Can you provide more information?

(Nov 28 '13 at 02:48) stronghold ♦ stronghold's gravatar image

Alhamdulilah, I still carry a sound state of mind, I don't think I am victim of B M. But one thing is, I see lots of weird dreams like, fighting with the devil alone, reciting verses of holy Quran.... field full of corpse.... meteoroid falling on earth... slaughter houses.... sky full of angels as well some time...

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answered 101 Taher786's gravatar image

Brother you may have black magic as this is one of the common signs. Consistent blockage in life. Please contact ruqyaislam@gmail.com. ..

R u in the uk?

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answered 23428 Faisal26's gravatar image

Alhamdulilah, I still carry a sound state of mind, I don't think I am victim of B M. But one thing is, I see lots of weird dreams like, fighting with the devil alone, reciting verses of holy Quran.... field full of corpse.... meteoroid falling on earth... slaughter houses.... sky full of angels as well some time...

(Dec 04 '13 at 08:52) Taher786 Taher786's gravatar image

aww,

Allah has said لا تقنتوا من رحمة الله - do not lost hope in Allah. In another verse, Allah says لا يكلف الله نفسا الا وسعها - Allah does not overburden a person.

Thus, Allah will never destroy you. Rather, be patient and keep working hard, and things will Inshallah get better. Remember the story of Ayub (as). He lost his land, his property, his children and even his wife, being left with no one, after he was struck with illness and left bedridden. He prayed to Allah everyday, and after decades, Allah, who was testing his patience, made him better and give him far more than he had originally.

thus, if you remain patient, Allah will give you more. Allah himself says, لئن شکرتم لازیدنکم - if you are grateful, i will give you more. And in another verse ان مع العسر يسرا - after difficulty, comes ease.

wwb

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answered 1792 mufti%20saab's gravatar image

Thank you, Inshallah Allah will send his mercy on me. Honestly I don't expect a lot like money, fame or beauty. I just want to keep my honour and live a simple life. I wish Allah make me enough strong to face and fight for my dignity.

(Dec 04 '13 at 08:40) Taher786 Taher786's gravatar image

Everthing that we go thru is a test from Allah. When we are weak our imaan is weak & we start to lose faith in Allah & we start to question him. Our lives are not written out by us, Allah is in control of everything, so when your life doest'nt go according to your plans don't be discouraged & don't be dissappionted because only Allah knows what is best for us. So as painful & hard as things might seem be patient & thru salaah you will find peace. Allah is always there guiding us.

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answered 10 zareen's gravatar image

Thank you for your kind words. I understand everything but its very difficult to coop with the situation, its never ending. I am responsible, hard working and always being kind and righteous and in return I am been insulted, offended. Failure in everything what I do therefore I can't even set an example that helping people, being sincere, hard working leads to success.

(Dec 04 '13 at 08:29) Taher786 Taher786's gravatar image
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