Asalam alakum ruhtimillah barakatoo, i have a younger sister of 21 years old, we still live with our parents and she is constantly bringing shame to my parents(who are very pious Mashallah). She has gone astray years ago, cocaine and alcohol and drugs.i tried everything, but I keep hiding her condition because i dont want my traditional parents to have a heart attack or grieve any longer, im scared she will grief them so much that they won't be able to handle it. Please tell me what i should do. (telling my parents is out of the question because they think she is clean from before but she has gone back to her old ways, i Cant tell them anything because of their health. Help?

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(Dec 13 '13 at 12:17) Bibi Amina ♦ Bibi%20Amina's gravatar image

Salam sis, First, explain the islamic way to her, e.g. Islam forbids you to do so etcetera, etcetera. Second, tell her what harm she's doing to herself, how she's killing herself slowly and discreetly. How it's Haram. Tell her you know she's addicted to it, but she has to stop or her whole life is gonna go to waste. Tell her that she's gonna regret it, and that she's wasting her life and she has to try. Explain to her, sis, or you're gonna blame yourself.

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