hello My name it's Ana-Maria , im original from romania im only 18 years old i have a boyfriend called Ali [ he is 35, muslim ] we meet online on a dating site we talked some months and we decide to meet he come in romania 2 times and we had sexual relationships [ zinnah ] . I wasn't so religiose before but i start be curious about his religion ,about islam, and i found that sex before marriage it's a very big sin and i talked with him about it and he told me that he love me and that why he did it even he know its a big sin , i asked him if he will stay more time like this in a haram relationship because i don't wanna stay like this more i don't fell i do the right thing and i wanna reach heaven i regret so much i had sex with him. When i asked him he told me that it's to early to get marry now i want to know if its ok to wait him untill he deside he want to get marry with me or i should quit on this relationship. I do love him he is a very nice men and mature but i want to do whats the right thing from now on.

asked 101 maria07's gravatar image

aww,

my advice is that you tell him to marry you. if he says no, find a good muslim in romania and marry him instead. If you dress modestly and keep going to the mosque, you will find someone. you seem like a good person. keep making dua to Allah to help you.

wwb

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answered 1792 mufti%20saab's gravatar image

I talked with him about this and we deside to continue the relationship and stop having sexual contacts it's ok to keep stay in a relationship ?

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answered 101 maria07's gravatar image

The sad truth is that many Muslims don't follow the laws of Sharia. Pre-Martial sex is a sin and Muslim men are taught to limit their relationships with women before marriage. This man doesn't seem like he cares too much out Islam and I would advise you not to continue your relationship with him.

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