me and my girlfriend are muslims and we've always wished to abide by God's rules. but since i've met her, her usuall complain was stomach ache. she often take some medications to relief her from pains, but as times goes on the situation become worse. so i advised her 2 go for a medical test. and she was told from the hospital that she must have sex before the pain could stop but my girl was only 20 and she was still a virgin. so what am i going to do now so as not to commit sin. pls helm me out.
Thank you for your question.
I am glad to see your interest in abiding by the laws of your of your Maker and Creator. Allah The Most Merciful has guided you to come to this site, before you committed the grave sin.
Pre marital sex is a grave and a major sin, and you must stay far far far away from this great and major sin. Allah says:
“And those who invoke not any other ilaah (god) along with Allaah, nor kill such person as Allaah has forbidden, except for just cause, nor commit illegal sexual intercourse __ and whoever does this shall receive the punishment.
The torment will be doubled to him on the Day of Resurrection, and he will abide therein in disgrace; --
Except those who repent and believe (in Islamic Monotheism), and do righteous deeds” -- (Surah Furqan. Verses 68 - 70)
Tell me brother, do you want to start your relationship with the anger and displeasure of Allah? If Allah is displeased with you, do you think your relationship will be blessed and good?
Allah has guided you to come to this site, and ask your question. I sincerely advise you to stay far and far away from this major sin and great danger for this world and the hereafter.
I sincerely advise you to marry her and end the haram relationship that you are in. Because in Islam you must marry and not date. May Allah bless you and bless you in marriage, and unite you and her again in Jannatul Firdaus after death!
Note: You can recite the Quran without wudu from the computer and other electronic devices according to the fatwa I read in IslamQA
Allah also says,
[This is] a surah which We have sent down and made [that within it] obligatory and revealed therein verses of clear evidence that you might remember.
The [unmarried] woman or [unmarried] man found guilty of sexual intercourse - lash each one of them with a hundred lashes, and do not be taken by pity for them in the religion of Allah , if you should believe in Allah and the Last Day. And let a group of the believers witness their punishment.
(Surah Noor. Ayah 1-2).
Note: The Bible and Torah (the current corrupted versions of the previous scriptures revealed by Allah) is also very strict on this subject, and prescribes capital punishment for adultery.