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i want to do hajjab and wear abaya. sadly my surrounding are full of people who do not appreciate it. my family does not follow this tradition. i talked to my mother and she said that i should wear it after marriage! she says that i wont find right husband so. my mom says people doesn't appreciate it and think wrong, let me fulfill my duty,let me wed you off then do what you wish. im already such a sinner, i want to wear abaya and start with a step at a time. i know my excuse is lame but i really hate eyes of strangers. sometimes i wish i could go invisible. everyday at university i struggle and lose more of my dignity.im very envious of girls who do hijab and wear abaya. my mother is very nice, she is very Naik . she is a widow. i dont want to break her heart or make her guilty. i already hurt her alot due to my lack of interest in house chores and being less worried about self grooming. please advise me so i could wear abaya and so keep my mom happy

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Yes. In this case, it is okay to go against your mother. Because if our parents (or husbands or rulers) ask us to go against Islam, then we should not listen to them. There is no obedience to those who command disobedience to Allah سبحانه و تعالى. Covering up properly (hijab, abaya) is a requirement in Islam. So you should definitely start wearing it. And explain the importance of it to her too.. give dawah, graciously. And do not worry about not 'finding a husband.' Actually, with wearing that - you will attract the right kind of husband.. who is good himself and wants a righteous wife. And Allah سبحانه و تعالى is with those who are patient.

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IN THE NAME OF GOD !salam,Dear sister. Hijab is obligatory. And the need to allow no one. Unless we allow anyone to pray. Trying to justify the mothers do. Better or the people of God, please talk to your mother. The Quran says:31-And We have enjoined upon man concerning his partners - His mother beareth him in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years - Give thanks unto Me and unto thy parents. Unto Me is the journeying. ( 14 ) But if they strive with thee to make thee ascribe unto Me as partner that of which thou hast no knowledge, then obey them not. Consort with them in the world kindly, and follow the path of him who repenteth unto Me. Then unto Me will be your return, and I shall tell you what ye used to do - ( 15 )...Several hadith:Imam Ali says: "If you obey God's creation caused by sin is not permitted.".Majlisi, Bihar al-Anwar, vol 74, p 85...The Messenger of Allah (PBUH), the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) asked that the angels are laughing or crying? Gabriel said: Yes. (One of those where the angels laugh) when she dies without the veil and dress, and arrive at the grave of her relatives on her until her body was covered with mud and dirt can not be seen. Angels laugh and say when he was young and excited to see anyone throw their sin (father, brother and husband, and his zeal did not) and he's not covered, but is now dead and all hate to see him covered...Hadith Qudsi has come to tell the servants to dress and wait for your enemies, in which case they do not like my enemies are my enemies...The Messenger of Allah (Slyallhlyhvalh) said: Allah has prevented you from being naked; (Bihar al-Anwar vol., 56) Therefore, to avoid being naked. (Sunan Altrmzy)...The Prophet says: The Lord has prohibited you from being naked to the shame of the great angels are with you that you can not separate toilet and retreats with his wife, except during the judicia...The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) says: At the end of my nation, are shots of men riding on their vehicles, the mosques are walking. Women, they are naked, wearing a hair is raised. These women have been cursed. (Almhasn, vol 1)...Aisha says her brother Abdullah ibn Tufayl was my mother who had the grace to come to my home. At the time of Prophet (pbuh) also entered and when he saw him on the back. Aisha said, Allah or the Prophet's daughter, and my younger brother is born! The Prophet said: When a woman reaches the age of menstruation is not permitted, except that he will appear on your another position. (Comprehensive Bayan, vol 9)...Moses (peace) used to protect their privacy so the people thought that his physical condition. The Messenger of Allah (Slyallhlyhvalh) said about him: Behold, Moses was a man of modest and covered with shame, and therefore there was no part of his body into the water when he tried to enter water bodies talking out of your clothes does, the while Israel did not feel ashamed of being naked in front of the washing and looking at each other...His father, Hazrat Imam Musa ibn Ja'far narrated from Hazrat Ali (pbuh) said: One day, a blind man asked permission to enter. Fatima stood up against Islam and the chador(abaya is very high). The Messenger of Allah said: "Why did you take away from him, he sees you?" Fatima said: "He does not see me, but I see him. Although he does not see me, but the smell makes me feel

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