I was in a relation, but now I came to know it is wrong and want to repent and perform touba. but the guy I was in relation with is acusing me of cheating him. he says that I am ruining his lyf. what to do now??

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Just stay away from him and if he continues asking, then just tell him the truth. That dating/"relation" before marriage is forbidden in Islam. But you do have to leave him if you do not want to sin and want to repent, as part of repentance is to intend never to return to the sin again. You are not "ruining his life." If he is a Muslim, then he should also repent and then if you two want to get married, it is fine. Otherwise, this "relation" is only going to continue to hurt -you-. May Allah سبحانه و تعالى make things easy for you, my dear sister.

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