can a women ask for divorce to marry her true love

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edited Apr 24 '12 at 01:08 NesreenA ♦ 199722 NesreenA's gravatar image

Assalam a'likum. You mustn't ask 4 divorce coz u love another man. Marriage is not a game. It is holy. Ask Allah to give u patience and love to your husband. Believe me, you will find love with your husband. It is just time. You will feel love when you ask Allah and make your husband love u. And u should be away from the man who u think he is ur love. Think of ur husband advantages and think of the disadvantages of the other man. But if u were‏ ‏forced 4 this marrige, u have the choice. You can stay with your husband and find love or u can ask 4 divorce. There is another point , if ur husband treat u violen‏tly and doesn't do ur duties, also u have the choice. You can ask Allah to change him to the best and be patient or u can ask 4 divorce. In the two cases u don't have‏ ‏the guarantee that the other man would marry u or make u happy. You should be patient and pray always to make ur husband close to u. If u do, u really will find love and happiness even after period of time. And u will find ur prize here or in jannah inshaa Allah. Just wait and u will find the bless in ur marrige.

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how does one fall in love with onother man? that is why in islam a women only has relashinships with her mahrams and husband you should cut off any relashinship you have with another man and what is true love exactly? we disected this in my english class and we ended up agreeing love with the opposite gender is based on attractivness and right timing for example the one day you were open to marrige the man decided he wants to marry you and that is good timing so i dont belive this true love exists or there is that one person that you love and you have to find him through trial and error this mindset is one of unbelivers that is fabricated by the media and television

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Salam,

There is a Hadith where a woman Sahabiyat complain to the prophet [saw] that she does not love her husband, after hearing this the prophet [saw] freed her from her husband.

I think you should also look at the possibilities that the one you love may not love you as you love him and that he may not give you what your husband gives you and marriages are not all about love as Allah says here, [And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought] [Sura 30v21]

Know est here when Allah says, [And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them] here Allah Has mentioned tranquility first before He mentioned love and mercy, and that is because tranquility is more important then love that is because love will not do you much if the one you love does give you what you want and need and that he does not provide for you and your kids, and this is what tranquility means and this is the reason why it is more important than love, that is because to have and to be giving what you desire and you need fulfills your heart and brings tranquility and satisfaction to your life.

Therefore, would advise you to examen your current situation before you make a decision that would end up ruin you for the rest of your life. Allah knows best.

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