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Hi, im 16 year old girl, I've been talking to this boy for 7months now and the more I get to know him the more I fall in love with him. I try my best not to create feelings between us but I can't help it. Hes 18 years old. He is a really honest guy and has all the qualities I want in a guy. Because im only 16 im not sure whether I should carry on talking to him or stop. I know if I tell my parents now they would never agree. I've been raised up by my parents telling me not to get involved with boys so now I feel really guilty. Can someone please advise me what to do and what is right according to islam? Ps. I have not meet this guy we only talk over text and we occasionally have phone calls between us.

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The right thing to do according to Islam is to stay away from non-mahrams and not unnecessarily interact with them. Things like texts/phone calls/emails open the door to fitna. When two people are alone, the 3rd is Shaitan. Subconsciously, you know it is wrong.. which is why you are asking this question, so that is good. So what you have to do now, my dear sister, is end this communication. If you want to get married to him, then tell your parents. Or he can approach your parents. But your parents are right - "do not get involved with boys." Be a good, modest & chaste girl.

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