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So i am a traveller/gypsy and i reverted to islam, off course my family dont accept it whatsoever, i know in islam men have more control over women but my father grew me up for no man to have control over you for example if i want to leave my home i need to ask my husband permission and tell him where im going fair enough but why my husband doesnt have to ask me to leave house and where he is going? its a fair question because i taught islam teaches u that no1 is superiour to another women and men are equal i taught? i do not wear hijab i have no confidence i have no muslim friends in fact i have no friends because i dont drink r do any of those things but i dont want to i dont need those friends who need drink in them to have a friendship.. im just so lonely without a muslim sister its just sad for me.. yes i have my husband but he works all the time and sometimes i want female company... sometimes i think i chose wrong by reverting to islam...

Understand meaning of prayer and it will "give you shame" for a prayer which is performed carelessly is a same as taking improper dosage of medicine. Recite and ponder Quran for wisdom, and read Sunnah. If you go and search Ahadith in sites like sunnah.com or searchtruth you will find most of your queries handled.

Yes they are 'garments of one another' the husband and wife in Quran but each is superior in its own right. The western influence has damaged this and what has happened now days: wife is a girlfriend, wife does not respect, etc you get the idea. But if you still have doubts do watch this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jf6B4xk3kcI

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In the name of Allah! salam.Dear sister in Islam is no preference between men and women. But the differences are so physically and mentally, that Islam gives special attention to it..Quran:66-Allah citeth an example for those who disbelieve: the wife of Noah and the wife of Lot, who were under two of Our righteous slaves yet betrayed them so that they (the husbands) availed them naught against Allah and it was said (unto them): Enter the Fire along with those who enter. ( 10 ) And Allah citeth an example for those who believe: the wife of Pharaoh when she said: My Lord! Build for me a home with thee in the Garden, and deliver me from Pharaoh and his work, and deliver me from evil-doing folk; ( 11 ) And Mary, daughter of 'Imran, whose body was chaste, therefor We breathed therein something of Our Spirit. And she put faith in the words of her Lord and His scriptures, and was of the obedient. ( 12)...Quran:3-(Remember) when the wife of 'Imran said: My Lord! I have vowed unto Thee that which is in my belly as a consecrated (offering). Accept it from me. Lo! Thou, only Thou, art the Hearer, the Knower! ( 35 ) And when she was delivered she said: My Lord! Lo! I am delivered of a female - Allah knew best of what she was delivered - the male is not as the female; and lo! I have named her Mary, and lo! I crave Thy protection for her and for her offspring from Satan the outcast. ( 36 ) And her Lord accepted her with full acceptance and vouchsafed to her a goodly growth; and made Zachariah her guardian. Whenever Zachariah went into the sanctuary where she was, he found that she had food. He said: O Mary! Whence cometh unto thee this (food)? She answered: It is from Allah. Allah giveth without stint to whom He will. ( 37 ) ... Quran:3- And when the angels said: O Mary! Lo! Allah hath chosen thee and made thee pure, and hath preferred thee above (all) the women of creation. ( 42 ) O Mary! Be obedient to thy Lord, prostrate thyself and bow with those who bow (in worship). ( 43 ) ...Hadith of the Prophet:Messenger Muhammad pbuh says: "Gabriel informed me that my brother and he is always ordering the women as much as I think it is not permissible for the husband to the wife, even" OF "tell."...My sister, God loves you so you love him. Listen to him speak and not fear being alone because God is with you.You answered your own question, please visit these sites:http://islamquest.net/en

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Walaykumsalaam!! I'm In the same situation as you my father is a traveller we were never brought us travelling but he still has strong roots, he doesn't no my choice yet but when he finds out he won't accept! what brought you to islam?

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My husband taught me all about islam when i got to know him then reverted then married Alhamdulillah, what traveller background you come from? where r u from?

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