I was a christian who married a muslim and converted to islam. I ve being married for 7yrs running with 3kids. my husband wants another wife with a flimsy excuse that he was destined to have more than one wife. Can I accept on the condition that he stay off sex with me but will not divorce him. I can't see myself having sex with him knowing fully well that he is having it with someone else. Pls I need a candid advice

asked 101 abidat's gravatar image
edited Feb 20 at 18:11

Tor gare amar 10 inchir jhunu dhukiye chudbo re shaali. Ar tokhon tui jala jontronai kator hoye aaahhh uuuhhh korbi. Hehehe... Tor gare mukh lagiye chumu khabo du ghonta dhore re shaali. Hehehe... Tor gaar chatbo re shaali. Hehehe... Ki mozai na laagbe. Hehehe... @questioner

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answered 8 Kutubganj's gravatar image

I have NO IDEA ^ what this person is saying but here: Ibn Qudaamah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in his book Al-Mughni:

“If he married her on the condition that he should not make her move from her house or her city, then this condition is valid, because it was reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘The most deserving of conditions to be fulfilled are those by means of which sexual intercourse becomes permissible for you.’ If he married her on the condition that he will not marry another wife, then she has the right to leave him if he does take another wife.” In conclusion, then, the conditions of the marriage contract are divided into three types, one of which must be adhered to, which is of benefit to the wife, such as her being able to stipulate that he cannot make her move from her house or city, or travel with him, or take another wife or a concubine. He has to adhere to these conditions, and if he does not, then she has the right to annul the marriage.” (Al-Mughni by Ibn Qudaamah, part 7, Kitaab al-Nikaah).

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answered 403 AdulAllah%20alwahid's gravatar image

Depends on the marriage contract if it specifies the husband can't take another wife.

He has the previlige to take another wife if and only if he can do justice:

And if ye fear that ye will not deal fairly by the orphans, marry of the women, who seem good to you, two or three or four; and if ye fear that ye cannot do justice (to so many) then one (only) or (the captives) that your right hands possess. Thus it is more likely that ye will not do injustice.

(An-Nisa, Chapter #4, Verse #3)

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answered 2466 abdul_wasay's gravatar image
edited Feb 21 at 07:50
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